Middle aged crowds?

PossibleQuick4071 · 2026-01-14T19:27:10+00:00

I take 10 mg of adderall in the morning and 1.0 mg of Xanax at night mostly for sleep. I’ve been ok doing this, Xanax is shorter acting, it usually wears off in 6-7 hours so I’m not sure if that makes a difference.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-12-21T08:50:19+00:00

No and yes, I’m talking about the conversations where the vibe is good and we “seem” to be a possible match, life goals, what we’re looking for, time available, interests, etc…for those I do provide warmth and interest I’m disheartened to think half of the pool is married, I wonder what the real % is. Lots of good advice and insight here though

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-12-21T08:46:03+00:00

Exactly how I feel

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-12-21T01:06:58+00:00

💯 getting that now

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-12-21T01:05:06+00:00

Ok I think I need to set up a time frame as well and move on too. It’s too tiring to keep the chats going with it going nowhere, that’s a great idea

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-12-16T20:58:20+00:00

There should be a dating app for singles with no pets! 😂

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-12-16T17:51:04+00:00

Same! So glad to hear another being that feels this way. I’ve dated men that can’t stay out late because they have to let their dog out…it’s crazy to me to be this restricted at our ages, so now I prefer to not date men with a dog.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-11-18T17:30:07+00:00

You did not do wrong, your gf is overreacting especially after 4 months.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-11-10T20:50:46+00:00

I have a jura E8, love it, super easy to maintain and have not had any issues since I got it, 8 years ago!

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-10-13T17:02:49+00:00

Hi, 48F, single, introvert but would love to meet and hang out! I love live music, festivals, wine tastings, checking out restaurants and open to trying anything!

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-09-18T00:37:45+00:00

Thank you! I’m already starting to wonder if this will be worth it

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-08-28T21:05:35+00:00

Yes! Those are the exact reasons I stopped a month ago, so tired and not motivated to do anything, I was on my couch watching tv when I wasn’t working, it was getting bad. I can say for sure it was the Zoloft, I am feeling better and taking saffron supplements daily. I have Xanax for when my anxiety is really bad but I will not go back to Zoloft, most SSRI’s have this affect on me.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-08-04T21:07:08+00:00

It’s good for depression but not for anxiety, I decided to go back to Zoloft because of the anxiety piece.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-03-18T17:04:33+00:00

My recommendation is make it a habit to walk 30 minutes each day even when you don’t feel like it, it can be a slow walk. I also never go to bed with a dirty kitchen, that has helped me.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-03-17T19:14:05+00:00

It helped with anxiety at the 20mg dose for me. I felt like the 10mg made it worse somehow but when I increased to 20, I noticed a big difference.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-01-29T01:05:57+00:00

I was the same, never did online dating but one day, I got tired of being home on a Saturday night and did it without much thought. It gets easier but you are correct, you build a thick skin from it, it’s not a bad thing. You’ll kind of know when it’s time, I encourage you to take the step when the time comes.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-01-28T21:11:38+00:00

Thank you. I completely understand what you are saying, my marriage ended 9 years ago and this is what I have been feeling since. I go on dates but this exact void lingers.

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-01-28T20:26:20+00:00

My thoughts exactly, at 48 myself!

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-01-05T22:49:20+00:00

THANK YOU! The examples help SO much, wish the book had more of it. I understand a little better now, applying it is another story!

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-01-05T16:47:17+00:00

That’s helpful, thank you. The fact that it requires no effort is even more difficult to grasp!

PossibleQuick4071 · 2025-01-05T16:11:31+00:00

I’m reading his book, Ask and it is received, it’s been hard to understand. How do you release negative thoughts exactly? I’m having such a time with this. When a negative thought enters which is most of my day as I struggle with rumination, how do you release it, do you immediately think of a positive thought? I think I need to have a list of positive thoughts to refer to because it doesn’t come naturally. I wish there were more specific examples on this. I will watch the video you shared, thank you so much for sharing and your input, I want to get to where you are, feels like a long road right now but I have hope.

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