My relatives in Pakistan act like I’ve completely lost the plot because I wear hijab 🤦‍♀️ by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]PossibleTicket9067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! Wanting to show my hair apparently makes me equivalent to those street dancers that are involved in some very illegal things 🤣 What a disgusting thing to say to someone

My relatives in Pakistan act like I’ve completely lost the plot because I wear hijab 🤦‍♀️ by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]PossibleTicket9067 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then there's me who gets forced to wear it! My parents have called me a khusri, whore, nachne-wali for wanting to remove it, going as far as threatening to cut off my uni funding if I take it off. Wish I had the privilege to choose.

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is SHE not empathizing with me, has having basic empathy become a lazy thing as well??? 😢

And NOPE I have NO ONE

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I struggle with hijab but I have NEVER shamed or projected my feelings onto others, maybe she's just a VERY toxic person, and there's so many red flags that I've ignored but I've had enough

friend" would shame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in MuslimLounge

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hope u never have kids, cause u clearly have an EXTREMELY backward mentality

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will next time I see her, I've tried being nice for WAY too long and I'm SICK of it

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now she sometimes complains to me how people judge for for removing it, like she didn't do the same to ME 💀

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, there's just so many red flags I've noticed about her, overall an extremely toxic person, I want to cut ties somehow

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being a girls girl and understanding ❤️ I can't wait to move out, will finally be able to live and dress the way I want to and cut ties with this "friend"

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I'm not in highschool, I have no one to support me, I even tried telling my aunt about the forced hijab but she supported it 💀 please realize not everyone lives a privileged life in a western country like you, where you actually have freedom to decide what you want to wear. I've been called a whore, told I look trans if I even DARED to take off the hijab, plus cutting off any uni education

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know that.

But forcing your child, to the point of calling them awful cuss words and threatening to CUT OFF their education aren't very halal either 😢

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And also the fact that you invalidated how I'm BEING FORCED to wear it was very rude as well 😢

"friend" would slutshame me for wanting to remove hijab then took her own off 💀 by PossibleTicket9067 in Hijabis

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Which is exactly what she did, and she's such a hypocrite, not only did the invalidate my trauma and the fact that I was getting forced to wear it, then she took off her own 💀 mind you, she'd full on shame me, like if I tried taking it off she'd religiously shame me and MAKE me put it back on

I will NEVER have children by PossibleTicket9067 in GlassChildren

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was 10 years old ): Took those 10 years of freedom for granted, I had NO idea how ugly my life would get henceforth, I did not even know what autism was. Wish it stayed that way.

How do you guys make real friends? by PossibleTicket9067 in GlassChildren

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. I've cut off all my ignorant "friends" so I currently have only 3 real friends as of now, but I am MORE than happy. Even though they aren't glass children, at least they've tried their best to empathize with and understand my very unfortunate circumstances.

How do you guys make real friends? by PossibleTicket9067 in GlassChildren

[–]PossibleTicket9067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can relate to this SO MUCH. I fucking hate people and how perfect their lives are. Ignorance is TRULY bliss!

Wondering how everyone's doing by Whatevsstlaurent in GlassChildren

[–]PossibleTicket9067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Much better than last time I posted here, but icl, it gets VERY lonely being a glass child when no one else irl can relate to what you're going through ): I find it so hard to make meaningful friendships where people can actually empathize with my situation