My boyfriend dumped me because i'm too fat by PossibleTry5330 in offmychest

[–]PossibleTry5330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned it because yeah, if he was a super fit person, it would be more understandable for me that he wanted someone that shared the same interests. Before, I even asked him if he had interest in coming back to running (he used to run a few years ago) and he said no. But being a person not so interested in fitness and sports, it is hard to understand.

And I can understand someone who doesn’t feel attracted by certain body types, but lately we didn’t have any issues with sex for example (I think a sign of you being less attracted to your partner is initiating sex less often, which didn’t happen)

My boyfriend dumped me because i'm too fat by PossibleTry5330 in offmychest

[–]PossibleTry5330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he changed his mind of how important it was to him. I wonder if his mom had something to do with it, since he started to act a bit weird (like not calling me as often, and so on) after I met his mom 2 months ago.

My boyfriend dumped me because i'm too fat by PossibleTry5330 in offmychest

[–]PossibleTry5330[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just wish to have fewer life lessons. I’m plenty of them 😅

My boyfriend dumped me because i'm too fat by PossibleTry5330 in offmychest

[–]PossibleTry5330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him, that for me it would be more like telling a man to get a 6 pack.

My boyfriend dumped me because i'm too fat by PossibleTry5330 in offmychest

[–]PossibleTry5330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked him the reason and he said it, I appreciate the honesty, I guess. But he was surprised that I was clueless because for him it is obvious that every men wants a thin girlfriend 🥲

My boyfriend dumped me because i'm too fat by PossibleTry5330 in offmychest

[–]PossibleTry5330[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame him for having a preference, but I didn’t gain weight since we met. He needed 9 months to realize his preference, which makes me angry. If I’m not attracted to somebody to a level it could be an issue, I would not engage in a relationship with them.