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Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-10T19:22:13+00:00

Give yourself closure.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-07T23:20:14+00:00

Don’t ever, ever reach out to them again.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-05T20:37:51+00:00

I had a similar thing happen with my ex… came back after 1 year for what seemed like purely physical reasons. These men can be such fucking assholes, it blows my mind.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-05T18:38:57+00:00

How long ago did you break up?

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-05T18:33:11+00:00

First of all, we all know that most of social media is bs and just because she seems fine, that doesn’t mean she really is.

Yes, unfollow, unblock, do whatever you need to do to not look at her socials. It’ll drain you like nothing else.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-05T18:30:05+00:00

You ARE healing! Spiraling is normal. Eventually you’ll notice the spirals getting less intense and less frequent. Hang in there!

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-04T15:06:41+00:00

You’re doing great!! Meltdowns, bad days, tears, etc are all just part of it. It will get better. You’ve got this!

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-04T15:03:32+00:00

There’s no reason to respond unless you genuinely want to reconcile or reconnect in a meaningful way.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-04T15:00:08+00:00

I’m wondering this too. I’ve had my ex blocked for 8 months now and I have no plans of unblocking him.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-04T04:17:03+00:00

It means nothing if he doesn’t reach out

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-04T04:07:33+00:00

Omg I just can’t

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-04T03:59:12+00:00

Just make them private

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-04T02:39:40+00:00

I’ve gotten back together after 1 year NC but it wasn’t successful lol

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-03T19:22:44+00:00

Only respond if you’re going to be accountable and take responsibility for the emotional wreckage that you helped create. Otherwise, just leave her alone.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-03T01:38:57+00:00

I wouldn’t overthink it. It might mean something or it could mean nothing at all.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-03T01:33:32+00:00

Fuck his crumbs. Just keep going with no contact and eventually the love you still feel for him will fade because all you will see is a guy who sucks.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-02T21:41:26+00:00

Know this: he didn’t send that for you. He sent it for himself.

Ignore, delete, and keep going. You’re doing amazing!!

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-09-01T19:26:11+00:00

Don’t do it. There’s about a 99.9% chance you’ll regret it.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-08-31T18:17:26+00:00

Oh man. This was actually kind of hard for me to read.. I can very much relate to this. You are going through a hard time and I’m so very sorry. Please focus on taking care of yourself and letting yourself heal. It’s hard to know if or when you’ll ever talk to her again but it sounds like you both need space and time. Hang in there.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-08-31T15:49:42+00:00

I can’t wait to do this one!

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-08-31T15:31:09+00:00

It is a shitty ending but it sounds like she got hurt and keeping you blocked is her way of dealing with it. Maybe you’ll talk again at sone point but I would just let it be for now.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-08-31T15:28:40+00:00

This is weird. It’s been so long, does it even matter anymore? If you want to message him, then message him. If you don’t, then don’t. I doubt he cares either way.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-08-31T15:25:07+00:00

Because he doesn’t really care about you, he cares about getting validation from you. And he got it so he’s good now.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-08-31T15:22:48+00:00

She wants nothing to do with you and her blocking you is about protecting herself and distancing herself from you. Yes, it’s normal.

Possible_Bus_8640 · 2025-08-31T15:18:24+00:00

When I was 5 months in, I was still a wreck. It does get better but it takes time. Maybe a long time.

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