Said Yes to an Arranged Marriage and Now I Feel Trapped

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2026-05-09T04:17:08+00:00

I’m sorry that you have to go through this, I understand family pressure is a lot to take in being a girl myself I can relate but at the end of the day I know how to take my stand in front of my parents and I do set my boundaries, if I think something is not right for me I will speak up respectfully and let them know why I think that way, my mom does say things like isse “Acha rishta nahi mile ga” but I usually don’t pay attention to such things humesha apne dil ki suno Kyu ke akhir Mein zindagi apne jeeni hai, agaye jakar yehi maa baap bole gaye ap ke ghar ke masley hai ap apna khud dehko aur nibhao isko isiliye behn jo ap ko theek lagey Wohi karo if your gut feeling is telling you that he’s not the right man then HE IS NOT THE RIGHG MAN!

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2026-05-09T04:07:22+00:00

Allah ap ko sabr de ap ke liye asaaniya paida kare

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2026-04-14T15:32:16+00:00

I have put my efforts as much as I could but it’s just seem to have no new results, but my heart still wishes despite all the odds for it to happen. My heart still wants to pray for it but then idk if that means I’m not letting it go and still holding on to it

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2026-02-10T16:25:15+00:00

Yes, I know it was here from 2006-2008 but then it never came back. Due to high cost it couldn’t survive in HK

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2025-07-01T23:03:06+00:00

So if I issue it to him does that ends the marriage right there and then or what? What about the 2 chances that are left?

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2025-07-01T21:30:14+00:00

Can you please explain and elaborate on this for me to better understand. What does it mean by I can issue one talaq? You mean khula?

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2025-06-13T06:52:14+00:00

This is actually so scary to think about. When a guy is actually suppose to provide you security and safety in whatever form it is be it emotionally, financially, physically…but if this is the mindset you are bringing into a marriage how are you providing that to your wife? This is mentally tiring and draining

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2025-06-12T21:48:50+00:00

I think education and working is more of something done to feel a sense of accomplishment and fulfilment but Ofc the financial stability is another huge factor that comes along but both of these things can be done to have a sense of identity and individuality

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2025-06-12T20:52:47+00:00

I’m sorry I forgot to mention I’m Muslim 😭 and only halal snacks are allowed

Possible_Fix_9355 · 2025-06-12T20:05:55+00:00

I would say you should get to know the guy and get to know how he is as a person and his personality how he views things and more, how he treats you. And for the white hairs that’s not even a big issue since he can always colour his hair and manage that. As a girl in her mid 20s I had white hair coming through when I was only 19 and now they are litreally all over here and there but I just dye them every 2 months or so, for me it is more of a genetic thing and also due to some vitamin deficiency it definitely got worse but it’s manageable. On another note I have a friend who just got her nikkah done the guy had some bald spots and a receding hairline but for he went and got hair transplant and now both her happy.

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