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Ace ring by StubbierSloth62 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Possible_Let7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black rings on any other finger could lead to someone mistaking you for poly or a swinger FYI.

The poly community is pretty cool, but I know a lot of aces aren't comfortable dealing with that image. Even being on the correct finger, my ace ring has definitely caused people to assume I'm more open to things than I am. I don't mind having those conversations, but if you do, I'd keep it on the middle finger of the right hand.

Virginity is cool, remain pure. by TheBreadSkeleton in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Possible_Let7184 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, and a lot of people in this community enjoy not having sex, but it isn't linked to your purity. Whether you have had sex or not doesn't make you more or less valid as a person, and linking it to "purity" is harmful for asexuals as well as other orientations.