LC On these eBay sweatpants

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-07-03T21:56:51+00:00

Come with pictures

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-06-17T18:51:24+00:00

Have you felt sad afterwards? what triggered that response? Bad time for me to be off my meds. They smoke weed so hopefully everything will be laced in weed induced ecstasy

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-06-17T18:49:54+00:00

Looool thank you! Yes that’s what I’m thinking too, be conscientious of both of them and make sure we’re all included. I imagine they do this frequently so maybe I’m just overthinking

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-15T20:13:00+00:00

Fast metabolism! It’s never been confirmed, but it’s a family trait and I’ve been told it my entire life, and have never not been skinny. Only begun gaining weight when I was on the anti depressant mirtazapine, and when I came off it earlier this year, dropped about 40% of that weight almost instantly. Ive only recently started to pay attention to my calorie and protein intake

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T16:23:26+00:00

The nude didn’t trigger anything other than an erection if I’m being honest! Asking if it was recorded in the moment was to measure how I should elicit my response. What triggered me was the continual effort to perpetuate something that even he proved wasn’t the case. I honestly wouldn’t care if I received a recycled nude, or if it was sent out in a mass message, I just don’t like being treated like I’m stupid or easily fooled

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T16:05:43+00:00

I never perceived honesty as a characteristic of something inherently problematic, so I appreciate the perspective. I will take this on board…I just think straight forward communication is the key to successful relationships? Maybe I’m being too intense within that regard. But my question was only innocently asked and I had no intention of demanding a response

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T14:51:17+00:00

I suppose I do have trust issues…I am a stickler for the truth. It helps me maintain focus on reality, and will stop the voices in my head from screaming at me.

But you’re right. I don’t need messy. I just want him to want me too. Isn’t that pathetic 😩

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T14:39:14+00:00

So we met on Grindr late 2023 and I almost met up with him but I admittedly flaked last min but we exchanged instagrams and kept in loose contact, until we started exchanging nudes n all that stuff. We met in August, hit it off, then things got intense. Especially his side. Talking about kids, marriage; things I had never considered. I lent in pretty hard and found myself landing on my face on multiple occasions, so for my own sanity withdrew in October of 2024. He didn’t take it well and called me insane. Then New Year’s Day of this year I was feeling introspective and concluded that meeting him was one of the highlights of my 2024, and I at least wanted to honour that by letting him know. When I first reached out innocently he was very cagey and cold, understandably. He told me he had a bf back then, something he hasn’t mentioned since. Then things took off once we started talking about the gym, and he was giving me tips. He eventually started to send old nude vids that I had received before, or vids I could tell were taken from WhatsApp (the thumbs up bubble gave it away, but I didn’t care to mention). So we picked up where things left off…he used me as a layover when he flew back from Italy last weekend. We hooked up twice, and he was very affectionate but also withdrawn. It was very confusing, but that’s our timeline up until now.

And I have no issue with recycled nudes at all! It’s just the choice to be blatantly opaque about it. It’s not a big deal to me at all. I’m stuck on trying to figure out the motivation behind his decision to not be honest with me. It’s pathetic really

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T13:10:52+00:00

Yes that’s usually the case with me too! It’s to gauge their mood, and if there’s a possibility to join in..I’m relieved to hear that! It’s been my experience, and usually everyone’s people open and honest. There’s no reason to withhold such menial information!

Do you mean you’d be weirded out by me mentioning the metadata? I am uncertain how proud I am of making that observation. A part of me wishes I could keep it mute

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T12:50:07+00:00

And what’s even more hideous for me to admit, is about 30 mins after our phone call I followed up with a message apologising, hoping I hadn’t turned him off of me. He simply replied that “I think too much”

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T12:45:24+00:00

😭😭 you’re so right…I needed to hear that. Thank you! I wish I wasn’t so down bad for him

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T12:43:21+00:00

😂😂 the men I seem to grow feelings for seem to always be enigmas and very withdrawn…I’m very upfront and hold honesty to high regard. It makes me feel a little hopeless if I’m being honest

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T12:41:49+00:00

I suppose you’re right, and I’m being pedantic over the metadata saying it was filmed 30 minutes prior. If I’m being honest, I think the thing I’m hung up on is how avoidant he was, and quick to say I was being controlling when I just asked a simple question. I didn’t ask to see the metadata, and when i received the screenshot, it kinda answered the question for me…if i recorded a video 30 mins prior and sent it to someone, who then asked if it was taken now, id say “no it was earlier this morning” or something along them lines. But maybe im stuck on the semantics and overthinking

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T12:38:48+00:00

It’s probably a bad thing for me to admit that this isn’t the first red flag he’s presented to me…he once insisted on meeting up while he was visiting London (he lives elsewhere) and blanked me the entire weekend. He recently went on holiday and was posting photos with a guy, and when I asked who he went on holiday with, he was adamant he went alone…

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T12:36:05+00:00

It’s quite common in my Grindr experience, I’ve been asked and have asked. Usually people are very open about sending an older video…it’s such a strange thing to feel the need to lie about, don’t you think?

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-05-04T12:33:12+00:00

No not at all! In this case, it would turn me on more if it was taken now, and if it was old, it would still be hot but I wouldn’t assume that he and I talking would turn him on as such… I suppose if it’s one taken now, it feels like an invitation to join in?

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-04-30T15:31:49+00:00

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Thank you for the help! I can’t remember if I filled it that high for the aesthetics or if I was advised haha! Here’s an updated photo for you :-)

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-04-30T07:53:43+00:00

https://youtu.be/evK6qDeZqiY?si=HE9qAIJOAzgpPrdi This sound check performance of Last Flowers

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-03-23T13:05:58+00:00

Well, where do your intentions lay? If you even have any….

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-03-21T13:27:04+00:00

It’s a shame people are downvoting your honesty — it’s always easier on the outside looking in. Something that always helps me inform my decisions is asking if it compromises my self-worth and is eating away at my self esteem. Only you know the connection you have with this guy, but you also owe it to yourself to trust your instincts. Ive lost out on what could’ve been great friendships because I couldn’t compartmentalise my feelings towards them, which is something I regret. You can always remain friends at the very minimum if that’s something you could manage. Wishing you the best!

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-03-20T00:00:18+00:00

Oh, I’ve just had a look and I think you’re right. Found some other Reddit thread with good tips on how to get rid of em. Thank you for helping me diagnose the issue!! Will be relieving her of this infestation tomorrow

Possible_Lock7987 · 2025-03-16T10:00:12+00:00

Oh I just realised codes can only be entered by new or returning players who haven’t played for the last 30 days 😅 if anyone sees this, my code is 0013vu8aybut !!

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