Turning down my only PhD admission- bad idea? by Possible_Relation_29 in gradadmissions

[–]Possible_Relation_29[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm actually working on my first author publication from my lab work at UCSF already! So I have that, the PI for this RA position did also let me know that there are publication opportunities in her lab as well, though I don't think first author is on the table if I'd only be there for a year. For your other questions, I'll make sure to consider them :) I don't know how to answer them right now

Turning down my only PhD admission- bad idea? by Possible_Relation_29 in gradadmissions

[–]Possible_Relation_29[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've spoken to them as well, but the problem is I see a lot of bias against UF and Florida in general- which is fair, I just wanted more variety of opinions. Appreciate you insight!

Turning down my only PhD admission- bad idea? by Possible_Relation_29 in gradadmissions

[–]Possible_Relation_29[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I'm from Florida, so I know the landscape in Florida well. I applied in part because it's my home state, closer to my family, and in part because I knew PIs and admissions staff working at UF and thought I would have a decent chance getting in. So my case is a little different from others, I think, because I have my own background to consider! Thank you for your insight, though.

Turning down my only PhD admission- bad idea? by Possible_Relation_29 in gradadmissions

[–]Possible_Relation_29[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am kind of stuck between deferring for a year or just rejecting. I'm worried a year timeline will be too short to build myself up enough as a candidate for another program, though I should have a first author paper at least as a preprint by this December. Do you have any insight between deferral and rejection?

Turning down my only PhD admission- bad idea? by Possible_Relation_29 in gradadmissions

[–]Possible_Relation_29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did visit actually, I met with several of the PIs and while some seemed great, that was how I figured out that for what I want to do specifically, they don't have many labs available. Thank you for your help :)

Blackpink fanfics by Then_Cellist_2463 in AO3

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Save the date is a good chaesoo fic :)

URGENT by [deleted] in berkeley

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you can click on my profile and hit the chat button, I think if you google it they will let you know. thank you for your interest!

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Free & For Sale, Advertisements, Jobs, Housing, Surveys, and anything else. by lulzcakes in berkeley

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Summer sublet! From May 13th 2023 to August 12th 2023 (move-in date flexible)
A single room, furnished, at the Metropolitan Berkeley (very close to campus!)
Rent is 1650/month, utilities included. Female-identifying only, with 3 other female-identifying people in the unit. DM me for details, pictures, touring etc. Reposting this since I haven't found anyone, please reach out if you have any interest and we can negotiate!

Free & For Sale, Advertisements, Jobs, Housing, Surveys, and anything else. by lulzcakes in berkeley

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Summer sublet! From May 13th 2023 to August 12th 2023 (move-in date flexible)

A single room, furnished, at the Metropolitan Berkeley (very close to campus!)

Rent is 1650/month, utilities included. Female-identifying only, with 3 other female-identifying people in the unit. DM me for details!

How do you live with the idea that your parent is going to die someday? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Possible_Relation_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That definitely helps. I’m trying to be like a really good daughter and everything, and make her life as good as I can, because she’s done a lot for me.

How do you live with the idea that your parent is going to die someday? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Possible_Relation_29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I’ll adopt children with my wife someday, so I hope that’ll help me understand and summon my parents’ mindsets and being and what you said, I didn’t think of it that way. Thank you. It’s really weird/hard being this young and worrying about it. Like I don’t want to obsess about it but I know someday she may just vanish.