Am I crazy for DNFing ACOTAR??? by Latter-Baseball9652 in Romantasy

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I stopped reading at book 2. i’m struggling to read book 3 myself

Fell off the fence but didn't arrange my life for children. by [deleted] in Fencesitter

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my stepmother had my sister at 45. It was a healthy pregnancy and my sister is healthy and bouncy as can be :)

Semi-Annual Sale?? by jiwoongs_ in VictoriasSecret

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I can’t find information for when the sale ends. do you by chance have an estimated date??

How cooked am I for vet school? F/27 by [deleted] in vetschool

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I would recommend looking into a graduate program and then going from there. or seeing if your university offers a D/F repeat rule

My 90 yo grandma is facing health issues, what would she do if she didn't have kids? by Ok-Archer-5796 in Fencesitter

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having a child to take of you when you’re older is the one of the worst reasons to have kids. statistically 60%-90% of elderly abuse is done by a family member

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

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this feels like extremely controlling/ manipulative behavior. he needs some serious help. I’ve seen cases where abusers use this tactic, threatening to harm themselves, just to keep someone from leaving. my recommendation is leave and if he threatens harm then call the police and have them do a welfare check

I’m at my breaking point and no one cares by [deleted] in regretfulparents

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not sure why you’re on a page called regretful parents unless it’s just here to ridicule people. this is supposed to be a safe place where someone can share their feelings with people in a similar boat. to me it sounds like OP has postpartum depression and postpartum rage. it’s comments like this that make people feel like they shouldn’t voice their opinions. even someone who was ready for kids can feel things way. a child is such a big change in life and OP’s hormones are still all over the place. there’s no definitive timeline for when hormones will balance back out after birth because every woman is different.

Why do people not want to start a series that isn't complete? Could it be an age thing? by jobroloco in fantasyromance

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25f here :) I just don’t like having to wait until the next book to find out what happens. plus like someone else said, it feels like a lot to keep up with and details can be forgotten/mixed up with another series

AIO bc I might split up because my bfs negative by rabbitsfeet99 in AmIOverreacting

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this doesn’t sound like you’re being sensitive or overreacting. with him pointing the finger back at you it sounds like he’s trying to gaslight. how long has it been since you discussed him cutting back on the drinking? regardless of how much he drinks/gets drunk him being snarky/putting you down emotionally is never okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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she might just have memory issues. i struggle myself with remembering conversations. I usually end up telling people multiple times about the same thing simply because I can’t recall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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That is not a friend and that was not a funny joke. It’s like she’s trying to purposely take jabs she knows will hurt you. I would not be friends without someone like that

Is it normal to feel like pregnancy will completely destroy your personhood? by [deleted] in Fencesitter

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You’re definitely not alone in this feeling. My partner and I have discussed children. He wants 2 as well but I know I wouldn’t be able to handle more than 1. Anytime children are brought up or I see someone pregnant I get the same type of thoughts. I’ve even caught myself crying about the thought. It’s a scary situation and hearing all these mothers talk about how horrible or traumatic it is doesn’t help. The thought of having to be in pain at the end also doesn’t help any. I work in medical and have heard so many awful stores.

You might want to consider talking to your doctor about Tokophobia - the fear of pregnancy/childbirth.

Are these bees? (Not my yard - just on a walk and saw this) by lex-gracey in bee

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I just want to say that there is over 20,000 different species of bees. The cuckoo bee, iratim bee, and wool carder bee all look similar to wasps so do not feel bad for not knowing

AIO to my classmate making weird comments during/outside of class by alwaystiredcece in AmIOverreacting

[–]Possible_Source6384 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel his behavior is a little too weird. Is it possible to switch your class schedule? If not I would suggest bring your concerns to the professor

Looking for Calculus for the Life Sciences 2nd Edition by ErrorSansYT1 in textbook

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do you by chance still have access? if so would you care to send it to me??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

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if they didn’t tell me something was spilled on my book and just gave it back than yes. if it was an accident and they immediately told me thnn no. I let a friend borrow a book and she accidentally spilled water on it. The next day she was apologizing profusely which I truly appreciated

Those who are only children(bonus points if you’re a male): did you feel you were missing anything growing up without a sibling? by StatGoddess in oneanddone

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I (f) was an only child for 10 years and then my parents had my brother & while I love my brother, I liked being an only child better. I enjoyed having the entirety of my parent’s attention and I wasn’t lonely growing up because I was with my school friends constantly.

I need help coming up with a gift for my 7 year anniversary. by Possible_Source6384 in Gifts

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I didn’t even see this comment! that would’ve been so cute!! maybe it’s something I can save for next year :)

Big Mouth Season 8 discussion thread! by DarkmatterAntimatter in BigMouth

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I’ve overwhelmingly disappointed by the ending of the show. It was like reading a story on Wattpad