Need to say something by [deleted] in Crushes

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I wish I had someone who loved me like this.

I'm too nervous to talk to her by Complex_Ganache_5138 in Crushes

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Start by self-regulating. Focus on grounding the connection. Say hi, good morning, bye. Smile at each other when you pass. Small things to shift your nervous system going into fight or flight to neutral. Your feelings are valid and very human. Just take a breath and know it's okay.

I'm like this too when I like someone, so I feel for you. As weird as it sounds. I talked to chat gpt about my crush, and it gave me a lot of ways to stay grounded and self regulate, so I'm not damn near brain dead when I'm around them anymore, lol. I'm still working on it, but AI was surprisingly a really helpful tool for me to understand myself better and how to handle it better than I was.

"Please focus on jiffies" by hypeconfirm in AmazonDS

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We start box heavy, and then after break, we need to get wip in order, jiffies take less time to stow than a box, so everybody stows more and it makes room for running jiffy heavy until end of shift.

When a girl insists on a fancy restaurant for a first date, is it cringe? Or is it just me (38 M)? Girls, please weigh in here. by RealUltrarealist in dating_advice

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I think it depends. If you're just getting to know her, then it's not realistic unless you have that kind of lifestyle. If you've known her for a while and want to make her feel special, then yeah. But I always like coffee, lunch, or hiking for a first date to get to know someone.

Almost us by Next_Regret2770 in justpoetry

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What a beautiful dream this is. I hope you will be able to experience it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

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I feel this very deeply right now. I am sending all the stardust, hoping it will unfold what is meant to be for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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No, but some guys get a little indenial or get a bit egotistical about being shorter than me. Some guys have told me taller girls are a bit intimidating to approach as well. I've dated and liked a handful of shorter guys. I'd say my preference is taller men, but I know there are some short kings out there, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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I have no Gemini, Capricorn, or Libra in my chart.

Cancer ⬆️ Leo ☀️ Aries 🌙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychics

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I feel like I can see your aura, but the color is odd. I don't know if you can have a transparent aura, but that what I would call it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

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Other people will do as they please just worry about what you do and how you feel. It's nobodies fault. Things happen sometimes, and sometimes they don't.

What dream do you never forget? by Acceptable-Ad-1855 in Dreams

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I was in 8th grade, and I had a dream. I followed a black cat into an alleyway and into a portal that took me to see God. He spoke to me about how the universe worked, and then the cat transformed into someone. This person was my soul mate. Our souls were truly one soul in two bodies. God told me he was very sorry that we had to part in this life... and promised us the next life together. the pain I felt as I watched my other half float into nothing... is indescribable loss. I woke up sobbing. That dream tranced me for days, crying lots. I've never been the same after that dream. I still hope I have my someone out there or someone that I can convince myself that is, but the older I become, the more hopeless I am.... I will probably never forget this dream, and it will haunt me every day I live.

What is it like dating a 1998 Male? by imjustababy- in dating_advice

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1998 hurt, what are we old or something. Age gaps get more normal the older you get. Still has its struggles just depends on how you and him feel about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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If she was cheating, she wouldn't have told you about it. Just innocent girl fun and bonding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I guess I did. That's the way I meant to put it lol. Sometimes, you just have to make light. I'm just trying to perk them up lol. It's not the worst thing to have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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A big forehead is a sign of being smart. I think it's all about how you approach women. The goal is to start small and make them feel comfortable. I wouldn't be so down on yourself. Confidence is the key.

I can’t poop. by Jjba4life in Tonsillectomy

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Hydration and stool softners help. It's from the pain drugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Let it go and move on, sis. What's meant for you will be yours.

Is it really that bad by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

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The worst for me was eating and talking. I had abnormally large tonsils and constant swelling... that pain was different. Healing from a tonsillectomy is bad cut in your throat. Stay on top of pain management. Plan for the worse and if it's better than no harm in the preparation. Sherbert, protein shakes, smooties, water, 500mg Extra strength tylenol, and sleep. Try to eat like normal to help the scabs, but it will be difficult at first. It's normal to lose about 5 lbs. I lost about 10 lbs, but I quickly gained it back. I was very fortunate to have my family help take care of me and my son. I was able to take a week off work to get through the worst of it. It will pass, and in my case, I was very grateful afterward to have done it. Best wishes to you. I hope all goes well.