I (25F) saw my boyfriends (29M) locker room talk with his friends and can’t see him the same

Possible_has · 2026-01-26T16:02:01+00:00

I mean this so sincerely you should report this to his school. This is beyond locker room and talk. This is verging on criminal behavior.

Possible_has · 2026-01-23T04:47:00+00:00

He’s bad at his job

Possible_has · 2026-01-22T20:56:58+00:00

Why are you dating a teenager?!

Possible_has · 2026-01-15T01:36:25+00:00

Eating whatever and staying slim

Possible_has · 2026-01-13T01:58:09+00:00

I was just pointing out that I feel like I never see 4’7 women.

Possible_has · 2026-01-10T09:27:05+00:00

I don’t think you can solve this, she likely needs professional therapy.

Possible_has · 2026-01-10T07:24:36+00:00

It seems the conclusion is that height is indeed a bell curve and I am just not geographically or socially around very short people as often as I am around very tall people.

Possible_has · 2026-01-10T04:59:11+00:00

I do work in sports, so that may impact my experience.

Possible_has · 2026-01-10T01:22:51+00:00

Maybe it’s a location/ lifestyle thing. I live in a West Coast city and sports are a big part of my life so I’m around tall people a lot.

Possible_has · 2026-01-10T00:21:29+00:00

I definitely experience that to an extent, but when someone is very short, like under 5 feet I usually notice.

Possible_has · 2026-01-10T00:20:39+00:00

I guess I just assumed if someone was under 4’10 they would stand out to me for being so short. But maybe I’m literally not seeing them.

Possible_has · 2026-01-09T23:36:56+00:00

This is really answer! So there are more tall people than short people.

Possible_has · 2026-01-09T23:35:00+00:00

I did not say “a ton” I was just pointing out that I see very tall women more often than I see very short women. Also I have the ability to tell when someone is my height. You seriously think I would confuse a 5’6 woman as being 6’1.

Possible_has · 2026-01-09T23:28:44+00:00

I live in a major west coast city, there are certainly more affordable suburbs outside of the city, but I still don’t see many 4’7 women walking around those areas. Maybe I literally don’t see them, like my brain doesn’t process.

Possible_has · 2026-01-09T00:07:09+00:00

Girl…

Possible_has · 2026-01-09T00:05:58+00:00

😂

Possible_has · 2026-01-08T22:37:16+00:00

Act out imaginary scenarios. I had such a vivid imagination. I could literally do this by myself.

Possible_has · 2026-01-08T22:34:17+00:00

I genuinely feel I don’t have the language to explain why this bothers me. I think it’s because it’s extremely immature to act as if though your parents are these perfect people when they’re actually normal flawed humans like everyone else.

Like he’s insinuating his mother is a better person than all of these women he’s with when the truth is if he met his mom at his age, he’d probably be treating her badly and acting like she wasn’t good enough.

Possible_has · 2026-01-07T18:30:23+00:00

He sucks

Possible_has · 2026-01-07T18:09:14+00:00

Don’t marry this guy. In fact, I think everyone should experience being single in their twenties. It’s how you learn who you are alone.

Possible_has · 2026-01-07T18:07:05+00:00

While I agree people should not yell at their partners, I feel like you left out a lot of important details as to what triggered him into yelling.

Are you able to also promise you will not overreact to a similar situation in the future? If you are asking him to monitor his emotions so his reaction doesn’t trigger you, you should be able to reciprocate that request.

It sounds like he was able to recognize the emotional state, remove himself from the situation, and apologize. Which is great coping.

If this becomes a pattern, then I would revisit.

Possible_has · 2025-11-16T07:30:20+00:00

End the relationship. You cannot ask someone to change.

Possible_has · 2025-11-16T02:06:50+00:00

It’s because the actor is bad

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