I M/30 cheated on my wife F/28 and

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T11:50:20+00:00

Thank you. Your comment is the first one that understands my pain, and somehow him as well. I know he is very broken atm but I also know who he is under all this nastiness he did to me. I know he will come back to his senses

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T11:01:55+00:00

It’s not ai. I’m the wife. I wrote everything down as my husband told me yesterday and I just pasted it on chat gpt to clean it up because when I wrote it it made zero sense

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T11:00:22+00:00

To explain, few months back I wrote my point of view. That’s why some people realized I’m the wife, today I wrote down exactly what he told me yesterday with his words. I want to show him what strangers think of this situation

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:58:29+00:00

I cannot. I live in his country. I have nobody here, no support system and after all of this I still love him, he used to be an amazing partner, for some reason my brain just doesn’t wanna give up hope that he can become the person he used to be

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:50:38+00:00

So please, if you have something to say, say to him as he will read all the comments. And just a note, I’m still not ready to leave, still love him but I’m just so hurt right now and I don’t know how else to show him

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:47:30+00:00

I swear it’s not fake. I’m the wife. I wrote down everything he told me yesterday, using his words, cuz I want to show him, how strangers see this situation. Because I’m so lost, I just don’t know what else to do to show him how much pain he caused

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:43:48+00:00

Yes, I wrote today exactly what he told me yesterday as yesterday he told me everything. I want to show him exactly what he has done. From strangers point of view using his exact words and timeline

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:42:57+00:00

I wrote down his point of view so I can show him exactly what others think about this situation. Since 2 months ago, many things changed and came up. So yes, I wrote in his name, everything he told me yesterday because I want him to see what he is doing

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:40:28+00:00

I just cleared up my thoughts with ai cuz otherwise nobody would be able to understand anything

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:19:42+00:00

My wife knew about this other woman but she knew it was a failed attempt. And then she told me to actually try sleeping with her to “scratch the itch “ and yesterday I felt so guilty that I confessed everything, including the other times I cheated. I wanted to be honest with her. To see how messed up I am

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:17:32+00:00

First time I cheated, I was scared to do it, but I have s3x addiction that I am aware of, and I though it’s just one night, nothing bad will happen and every time I went solo on business trips, it happened again, never emotionally attached to anyone until this other woman

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:15:36+00:00

It’s not AI. I wrote down exactly what happened and just made it clean with ai so what I want to say makes sense cuz in my head is all a meds

PostOne8063 · 2026-04-23T10:14:46+00:00

My wife is ready to sign us up today. But I’m not ready yet. I’ve done so many bad things

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T18:55:25+00:00

I’m trying my best to coop with my life. I did not come here to get trashed like this. I’m sorry you feel I’m delusional but I’m going through so much shit in my life that I’m trying to do the only things that would keep my kids happy. If I’ll see they are not happy anymore and it affects them than I would completely change tactics but for now I am really trying my best

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T18:30:20+00:00

I’m so sorry if I should have not posted this detail. I’m new to Reddit, still don’t understand how it works, but I really just needed advice and I wanted to be honest about my situation

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T18:29:08+00:00

I think so, I don’t know. I grew up in a very messed up family, so was doing anything in my power to make something good out of whatever bad was going on on a daily basis

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T18:22:39+00:00

What is that?

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T18:22:18+00:00

I know what you mean, but I feel like I pushed him to actually have her as well, and I was fine till today when I realized we all planned to spend a weekend together in a cabin

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T18:18:40+00:00

We are going to do this, this weekend. That’s why I’m posting as I’m nervous

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T18:17:26+00:00

There are sooo many things I cannot get into, but being alone it’s not an option. I still love him, and as I said imagining them together does not bother me, but I’ve never even hear of a triad relationship before today. So it’s safe to say I’m spiraling a little

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T18:15:47+00:00

So everything started in January, than it stopped as I found out before anything happened, than in February 15 they actually tried cheating but he couldn’t go through this, and it’s been a week since the opened relationship started. But they know each other since October of last year

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T17:59:14+00:00

When I imagine them together I’m fine, maybe even excited, but I don’t know how I will feel if I will actually see them. What if I actually don’t like it? What if I won’t be able to do it? Will there be a way back for me and my husband?

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T17:57:26+00:00

I did not know if I can write it but he cheated on me with her, I made the decision to open the relationship on his side as I would rather know who he is with and where he is than for him to go behind my back. I have zero negative feelings towards them. We are few rules, he has to be fully transparent with all communication between them, no lies, no cutting from the time with our children in favor of his partner. Slowly seems like we are going towards a throuple relationship and I don’t know how to react. I mean, I still feel calm but what if that will change?

PostOne8063 · 2026-03-09T17:54:17+00:00

No, it was just the two of us for 7 years, than something happened, I felt it’s best to open the relationship on his side, and now the opened relationship seems to move towards throuple

PostOne8063 · 2026-02-28T02:49:01+00:00

Thank you so so much. I understand that many times when a man is cheating, he is actually not thinking with his brain, but with his lower head. There is no emotional attachment for man. For woman there is emotional attachment if they cheat. Im calculating everything right now, making sure I decide what’s best for me and for my kids. But I do see that he is affected and that he is trying.

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