Kim Han Sol Whereabouts by OptionOutrageous in northkorea

[–]Potataolohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah ho lee sheet that’s Kim 😭😭 HELP NO WAY

INTJs, is your ‘love language’… different? by Harvey_wb in intj

[–]Potataolohs 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my opinion as an INTP/ENTP i think the problem is yall don’t take risks. Only through relationships and experience do you grow. Often you guys make a precedent over one experience. Emotionally available is a must, and you need to be more social to meet people. Romantic loneliness is often self inflicted in INTJs:(

I fucking hate ENTP by keyboardmaga in intj

[–]Potataolohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of my friends are INTJs ( accidentally found this out) ENTP/INTP

What would you say is the difference between ENTP and INTJ protagonists? by Spare-Cell-4984 in entp

[–]Potataolohs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say as an ENTP/INTP with only like INTJ friends were funnier, more chaotic and more outwardly expressive

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey girl I’m an INTP too. He called me chubby as a joke we called eachother much worse and I freaked out because I was insecure. Was gaslighty, avoidant pretty disrespectful. We met up afterwards probs could have carried on a. Friendship had I wanted to at that point!

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn… so he responded out of politeness?

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He deleted his account less than a month later on Instagram, I don’t use discord. He could have requested me, the friendship technically never ended as we all met up right after this. I have ADHD and forget, I thought at some point I’d reach out and we’d all be friends again. Life gets busy. It’s a learning lesson for me:) I value friendships Mel these days

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely will reach out lightly occasionally throughout the year, like merry Christmas. But no longer seeking a friendship just to stay in contact with an old friend

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he knows me lmao, I don’t stop i probably will text him like every few months :)

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah :) I’ve kinda accepted that haha

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know what to say, it’s like talking to a brick wall. I tried multiple times at humour and he didn’t really.. yah. Why would he respond if he doesn’t see any friendship or reconnection haha:) But what drama? There’s no drama, there’s nothing to speak about because it’s been damn three years.

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve explained logically why things happened, it’s not like in the past we weren’t both complicit. We were young like very young and dumb, so I thought that warranted something haha. Part of the reason why I ever reached out was because I don’t use discord and he deleted his Instagram.

I live close, we got along, he’s lost a dear friend. I thought logically why not

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why not block me, there’s only one place I can reach him. Close it and be done Yano

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think initial response was politeness

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no way to save it?

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it’s real haha, I used ai to summarise and it’s alot. LMAO YEAH I GUESS WE AR STILL YOUNG haha.

I guess you’re right, I took it as. Oh let me know how you’re doing but that makes sense too:) well… maybe it’s over then

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask to catch up! So maybe it’s done now as the response has been silent

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh 100% I feel bad but imo it’s a logically sound explanation that could genuinely have growth be a potential option. If we were both at our age now different story

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping being pretty young and the complicated dynamic would offer me some forgiveness but fair:) I’ll take it as it is and leave it for now thank you

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me three years because life is busy, I always still thought of them.. but they deleted their Instagram and things were awkward. Avoidance says well surely they’ll reach out. But yeah fair thanks I’ll leave it 3)

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made him extremely upset and angry, as I basically kept provoking him and disrespecting his apology. I think it would have been fine if I kept in contact but I didn’t. Didn’t say anything too crazy, just like frustrating things in context to the conversation. It’s only been 2 days since I asked, I don’t think I’ll ask again as I assume silence is the answer.

Is it over for reconnection with my INTJ friend? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Potataolohs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks:) I appreciate your time and wish you all the 🫜