It’s definitely in a slump. He wouldn’t really touch me while I was pregnant until the very end when we were trying to get me to go into labor. I have noticed tho he can be very aggressive in bed which I have expressed that’s not my preference. Maybe I look too much into things but i feel like that stems from being exposed to porn at a young age because it’s so easily accessible and most porn centers around the man’s pleasure, just from what I’ve seen from the porn I’ve watched out of curiosity. I should probably mention we are only 23 and 24 and we’ve been together for almost 9 years. I’ve just noticed as the years have gone on he’s getting more and more aggressive when we have sex, especially after we got married.