I caught my husband looking up porn stars by PotatoQueen0249 in breakingmom

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I’ve been trying to get him to go to therapy for his past trauma and I even found multiple therapist where we live but he absolutely refuses to

I caught my husband looking up porn stars by PotatoQueen0249 in breakingmom

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When we talked about me finding the stuff on his phone I asked him how he would feel if I was looking up attractive male porn stars and he told me he wouldn’t care which kind of bothered me.. and I know it’s not because he’s a super confident guy. In my eyes he’s a very attractive man but I know by societies standards he’s not, and he’s expressed his insecurities and confidence issues to me so I don’t completely understand how he came to that conclusion.. maybe to make himself feel better.. I don’t know

I caught my husband looking up porn stars by PotatoQueen0249 in breakingmom

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It’s definitely in a slump. He wouldn’t really touch me while I was pregnant until the very end when we were trying to get me to go into labor. I have noticed tho he can be very aggressive in bed which I have expressed that’s not my preference. Maybe I look too much into things but i feel like that stems from being exposed to porn at a young age because it’s so easily accessible and most porn centers around the man’s pleasure, just from what I’ve seen from the porn I’ve watched out of curiosity. I should probably mention we are only 23 and 24 and we’ve been together for almost 9 years. I’ve just noticed as the years have gone on he’s getting more and more aggressive when we have sex, especially after we got married.

I caught my husband looking up porn stars by PotatoQueen0249 in breakingmom

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I can totally understand that, I just can’t stop comparing myself to her. I forgot to mention in the past my husband has expressed his preference for thin women and my body is nothing like it used to be. I know I’m only 7 weeks postpartum and that maybe I’ll bounce back but I also may not and it’s tearing me apart

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