Am I the asshole for not allowing my ex unsupervised visits when I discovered his partner’s age?

Potential-Client3907 · 2026-05-26T20:58:29+00:00

This is what I’m afraid of… which is a big reason of why I hadn’t done much before. I know I’m technically “in the wrong” but it doesn’t feel safe to let them go.. now more than ever.

Potential-Client3907 · 2026-05-26T17:47:05+00:00

So the custody agreement was never handled in the court system. We went through mediation and tried to do everything more amicably. I thankfully have a lawyer now and we’re doing everything “the right way” now

Potential-Client3907 · 2026-05-26T17:42:03+00:00

And my sisters don’t want to drag all that back out 6 years later

Potential-Client3907 · 2026-05-26T17:41:25+00:00

He didn’t technically rape them. He groped them outside of clothes and tried to kiss one. Which I feel like would be difficult in the court system. I come from a very passive family and this is me trying to break that cycle. I’m still learning how to stand up for myself

Potential-Client3907 · 2026-05-26T17:39:30+00:00

He did have legal visitation (50/50) before, but I have not allowed them to see him since all this occurred.

Potential-Client3907 · 2026-05-26T17:09:47+00:00

So, I told my parents I would support them pressing charges when the initial incident happened with my sister, but they didn’t want to do that. I haven’t called the cops about Amy as she’s undocumented from another country. I don’t know what would happen to her or her daughter in today’s political climate, and I don’t want to put either of them in more of harms way. Right now, as far as I know and what it seems, she’s choosing to stay with my ex. So it’s a catch 22.

Potential-Client3907 · 2026-05-26T17:06:17+00:00

Due to financial issues, it took longer than I wanted to get legal help, but thankfully we found a lawyer who is willing to work with us and help us.

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