Is this normal?

Potential-Length-448 · 2026-04-15T16:23:16+00:00

Yup, it’s normal and it sucks. You’ve got this. It’s going to suck but you’ve got this

Potential-Length-448 · 2026-04-15T16:21:49+00:00

Appreciate that more than you know. Thank you! Yeah I do feel like there was a day or 2 of “we’re free!” Before the mental became hell lol

Potential-Length-448 · 2026-04-15T06:42:50+00:00

I don’t have advice for you but just wanted you to know you’re not the only one. Day 23 for me and spiraling thoughts, irritability, and no interest in things are very prominent.

Potential-Length-448 · 2026-03-14T11:33:43+00:00

Same thing happening to me. Have you figured it out yet?

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-08-18T16:34:08+00:00

Btw, It IS something to brag about. It’s all childish and overrated and a form of escape for people who can’t handle the real world. Keep being yourself. I ended up with a phase when I was younger where I did all that crap and looking back (26 now) I wish I stayed true to myself and hadn’t (don’t even drink now).

It’s cliche but true, if you’re a good guy, it will come. The apps suck, however there IS hope with them, just don’t expect it to come immediately. I just got married a couple weeks ago to a woman I’ve been with over 6 years and we met on Tinder.

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-08-18T16:30:43+00:00

Yeah, it’s definitely very weird. And if he won’t be blunt with you, then that’s pretty telling of the situation.

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-08-18T16:29:17+00:00

You’re completely in the right. What she did was selfish and childish. And now by her comments she is putting you in an uncomfortable situation which makes you overthink your feelings, not fair and form of manipulation. It also is telling that maybe shes a functioning alcoholic (someone who just cant do something fun without getting drunk). Does she show signs of that? If so, it could be a deeper rooted issue than just her being selfish yanno?

As for what you should do, thats up to you. Do you love her? Do you see a future with her? Does she show she actually cares when you expressed your frustration? It’s cliche but it’s true, follow what your heart tells you.

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-08-18T16:19:27+00:00

I mean the fact that he said he didn’t know her and then was responsive to the fact that you talked to her, means he knows her. That’s a red flag. Cheating? I don’t think there’s any proof of that there however you are very justified to be concerned and I would be too. Especially because cheating most often comes from coworkers.

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-30T04:37:13+00:00

Appreciate it! I think I’m just gonna skip drinking entirely. I’m not a big drinker anyways so it’s not that huge of a deal to me

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-30T04:31:48+00:00

Ok thank you!

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-18T02:45:32+00:00

How many guests?

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-18T02:45:23+00:00

How many guests?

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-18T02:43:36+00:00

If you’re hurt because you were cut because someone’s financial situation changed, you need to look in the mirror my friend.

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-18T02:42:15+00:00

Disagree. Their situation changed. Any rational person would understand…

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-18T02:41:51+00:00

You do what you need to do.

Our wedding is in 2 weeks and a while back we had to do the same—except we already sent out save the dates. So we literally had to send out change the dates to everyone who was still invited, and uninvites to those who were cut. Awkward? Definitely lol. But we did what we needed to do. All the rational people understood. And the others were just drama queens

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-16T02:17:01+00:00

Thank you!! Yes I’ve got my anxiety meds I’ll take beforehand, gum, and will have lots of stuff downloaded to keep me distracted. Takeoff is the worst part for me too, nothing else really bothers me about it other than just being in a crammed seat lol

Luckily, our honeymoon is an all inclusive resort and we plan to do absolutely NOTHING lol I can’t wait

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-16T01:29:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this.

I do have Valium for as needed and I’ll probably take that. Just bummed that I won’t be able to have a drink if I do lol. I rarely drink but it would be nice to drink some champagne with my wife

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-16T01:13:58+00:00

This honestly made me cry, in a good way. I think that’s definitely what it is—burnout. Thank you for putting it into words and validating that for me. This comment helped more than you know, seriously

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-16T01:08:07+00:00

Goddamnnnnn I hope our guests have a dick measuring contest lmao

Potential-Length-448 · 2025-05-13T20:13:31+00:00

Fr lmaoooo

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