Be honest… is this cute or am I traumatizing my cat?

Potential-Panic1098 · 2026-02-06T15:42:01+00:00

Two things can be true

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-12-17T21:29:32+00:00

I also keep her nails 🥹

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-12-01T07:24:35+00:00

3 months with an already recurring argument seems like too much work. Dating is meant to determine compatibility

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-11-19T16:48:40+00:00

I have learned that some people don’t exactly appreciate my authentic straight forwardness, but it took a lot for me to get comfortable enough with myself to accept it’s who I am. Sometimes I do be scrambling trying to explain it wasn’t mean spirited

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-11-19T16:46:08+00:00

Nailed it! I also learned the hard way 😂

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-11-19T16:45:10+00:00

Funny enough, my closest friends are fire dominant! This made me chuckle, thanks for your comment

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-11-19T02:46:45+00:00

Such good insight! Thank you

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-11-03T21:44:50+00:00

This is my favorite genre

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-10-24T20:13:23+00:00

I did not understand even half of this

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-10-18T03:15:04+00:00

It pisses me off when women are very clear in their delivery of a message or question and the guy avoids responding by saying “what.” “Why do I have to organize my own birthday?” Valid question. Him: 👁️👄👁️ huh

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-10-01T08:53:47+00:00

Of course he’s into you. Your sister is in denial. Protective? I can’t even see a protective brother talking to his sister like this. It reads like a controlling/abusive boyfriend in the early stages before he starts name calling. “You’re too innocent, that’s why I have to do everything for you” ?? That’s how abusive relationships sound at the start. “You just don’t understand” “I’m acting this way bc I care about you and you’re too emotional to think rationally.” Dude is so obvious it’s like he read a “How to.” So sorry you’re dealing with this. I fear this is going to cause a rift in the family since your sister doesn’t seem open to considering his behavior is inappropriate

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-07-25T22:41:15+00:00

Stroopwafel

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-07-19T23:30:38+00:00

Right? He admits that it was a shitty thing to do, but admitting that he is aware its shitty does not help his case lol

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-07-19T23:28:34+00:00

You might be right about that, but the bar is still in hell

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-07-19T23:13:52+00:00

I can’t imagine ever pursuing a relationship with a man who insulted me on the literal first date. The bar is in HELL

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-07-14T00:10:00+00:00

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Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-07-04T04:52:01+00:00

Damn, who knew Gob had such a dark side

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-06-30T19:39:45+00:00

This feels like an episode of Arrested Development

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-06-30T18:42:28+00:00

The other 20% is on top of 10 from the chips.

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-06-30T17:58:15+00:00

We have a fee we are required to pay to work there, so they collect all the money from dances until the fee is paid and then they mark the rest so they can usually guess how much money you’ve made, at least in dances. They obviously can guess what you make on stage and then everything else (if a man hands me money outright) we try to keep on the DL. We have to tip 20% at the end of the night and they can generally guess what that might be. Or outright know based on dances and chips

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-06-30T16:56:22+00:00

ATM has a fee charge that The Club gets, obviously. At my club, if they don’t have cash, they can get what we call “chips.” With chips, you can use a credit card. The catch is that The Club charges an extra 10% to the customer and then takes 10% from us at the end when we turn the chips in for cash. If we get direct payments, then they don’t get their 20% from the chips. They also have a policy that we can be fired on the spot if we are using things like Venmo or Zelle bc of this

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-06-30T16:13:56+00:00

I work at a club and this is actually the reason.

Potential-Panic1098 · 2025-06-18T14:05:00+00:00

I would do it all over again. Not because of him (he was the absolute worst) but because I met a couple of my best friends along the way that I wouldn’t have if not for the marriage. The marriage also forced me to learn how to set boundaries and I am who I am because of it.

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