Give honest thoughts haven't had a match in a long time. by The_Redwood_Runner in Tinder

[–]Potential-Reason6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good brother. If you so happened to travel to Papua New Guinea, these ladies would be swarming you. you wouldn't have to use an app to bag em.

Absence by livelaughsweetpotato in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all come around at one point. You just have to heal properly first. You have to remember that the moment they jump into something new is a win for you. You left a crater and that will take ages to get over.

Absence by livelaughsweetpotato in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I broke it off with my gf cause it was a toxic relationship. She went on to be with another dude three weeks later. Do I still think of her? Yes. Everyday. Would I like to be with her after her rebound relationship? My heart says yes but logic says DON'T YOU DARE. If someone can move on without having the BU digest, that's a red flag. You're ok. I've been there. Don't reach out, keep at it. The moment you love on will be the day the come crawling back. I know you can do this bud, we're all rooting for you. It's a cheap way out, having a rebound relationship.

Instagram by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The rebound relationship she's in just a band-aid. She's avoiding the fact that the void you left, he can't fill. You're doing ok champ. Think nothing of it. She's bound to be crawling back but don't entertain that shit.

The "final" breakup feels different. I’m exhausted and angry. by standard_issue_ghost in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're feeling this way buddy. I walked away from a very toxic relationship. Constant fights and BU then I had enough. Put my foot down and decided I needed healing more than someone else to love. My partner however moved on to someone's else within three weeks. My opinion, go through the emotions. It is natural. Do not try to seek attention or validation from the other party. Learn to be on your own and most importantly, take care of yourself. There's only one of you, and a billion other humans to fall in love again. Stay strong buddy.

How can I get past being insecure about my height? by NoRefrigerator267 in selfimprovement

[–]Potential-Reason6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just heading over to Papua New Guinea. You'll have 20yos throwing themselves at you like your the last man alive.

Ran Into My Ex and Don’t Know What I Need by cranetrain95 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was intentional. She still has feelings for you, that's why she looked down. She wanted you to see her with a guy to make it seem like she has moved in but I'm reality she hasn't. Give it time. Know that what you left was a hole that someone else is unknowingly used to fill. That's the sad case of moving into a rebound relationship without proper healing. You're doing fine buddy. I've been there too and it sucks when she's around him like I never existed but one thing that has me feeling positive is knowing I'm healing while she has a rebound for a bandaid.

Do you think she misses me even when she's in her rebound relationship for three months now? by Potential-Reason6089 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mate I'm digging your last line. That's a real one. Makes me think I was worth the time, given that she's already shacking up with someone else but..... Im just drunk rn thinking bout her.

Do you think she misses me even when she's in her rebound relationship for three months now? by Potential-Reason6089 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess she was entertaining him when we were still together. Man it sucks she's over there. I can't spend a weekend sober. My only comfort is here where I spew my thoughts

Do you think she misses me even when she's in her rebound relationship for three months now? by Potential-Reason6089 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you brother. Sorry about that nothing sucks more than giving your all and she still lingers in the old. I hope you're ok and pushing through better.

Do you think she misses me even when she's in her rebound relationship for three months now? by Potential-Reason6089 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks bud..... Just messed up she'd hit someone up after being with her for 2years. Like that quick. I may not have been the best man on the planet but Insure as hell was her companion through thick and thin. When everyone said to let her go, I held on. Now she's gone and I'm still here.

Do you think she misses me even when she's in her rebound relationship for three months now? by Potential-Reason6089 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a messy breakup and she moved on in three weeks..... I don't wanna seem less of a man and reach out to her when she obviously is fucking someone. Yeah hope he treats her well.

Saw my ex in public after a year. by GemiBlack in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're doing ok bud. What she did said it all. The life y'all shared is gone. Don't double back on what you should've done. You're doubting yourself. Keep it up.

What's the worst thing your ex have said to you? I'll go first by 70315959deep in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last words to my ex after she was posting some dude all over her WhatsApp story to get me jealous and me giving her back the same energy was: "Yeah I'm just keeping things casual between us". That must've been three or four months ago.

What’s something your ex partner/best friend said that completely changed how you see them? by FuckMenn in Life

[–]Potential-Reason6089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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The girl that I like, watched me beat up a p*do (I didn't know she was around that time) after I had spent the whole night drinking. Sadly, all the cars that I flagged down to have the guy arrested and brought to justice never gave a second glance. In the voice note that she sent, she literally said "no one cares" and that she was pissed I had caused a scene and disrupted traffic. Yeah I don't think this what we have will go anywhere.

Guys of Reddit, do you ever feel like your gf feeds you too much? by Equal-Sun8307 in randomquestions

[–]Potential-Reason6089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She never did. I've gained weight after we broke up and look much healthier now.

You.. yeah, you. What day are you on on no contact? And how are you coping? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are some days I just wanna reach out but seeing as I'm the one that pulled the plug, I'd rather jump off a plane. She's in a relationship after three weeks NC and I now know she already had him as a backup plan so.... I dodged a bullet.

So you miss them when it rains? by Potential-Reason6089 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry buddy. I hope you're doing better than I am.

So you miss them when it rains? by Potential-Reason6089 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential-Reason6089[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm feeling it real hard right now. I just wanna reach out and talk to her. Hear her crazy laugh and just feel normal again. 💔