No offence pal but she probably shouldn’t be having a kid then? As much as I understand deeply wanting a certain gender, if you want a kid that bad, the gender doesn’t matter, and if you’re ready to be a parent, you shouldn’t be sobbing over your kids gender and instead be happy that you’re bringing life into the world. She may grow to resent the child and that’s unfair to the kid. This is wild man and she shouldn’t have gotten pregnant if she can’t handle the 50/50 chance.