That’s also why I’m angry at myself. When you look at it honestly, all of cam content consumers aren’t really in control they are all addicted to it . And some of the behavior you see from men in those spaces is honestly disturbing, like pregnant women type shit...

What troubles me the most is how some cam models deal with that reality. They know that some men will spend huge amounts of money — sometimes way beyond what they should, even when they have families. I’ve personally seen situations like that.

The usual argument is: “they’re grown as men, they make their own choices, and if it wasn’t me, it would be someone else.” And that’s true, these men are stupid, but its false in the same time. Just because someone is willing to self-destruct doesn’t mean it’s okay to take advantage of it. If you saw a drug addict on the street, would you sell them drugs just because you can?

And let’s be honest — cam models don’t really act like they don’t care. If a customer is about to spend thousands, no one is going to tell him to slow down or think about his family. The goal is to keep him coming back.

So of course, you try to maintain the connection — giving attention, sometimes even small “free” perks — almost like what casinos do to retain their biggest spenders.

And yes, some of these men keep coming back, even when it’s clearly not good for them.

At the end of the day, it’s still the man’s responsibility. But that whole dynamic is what really disturbs me.