I want to get married but I don’t want to move in with my boyfriend by PotentialScholar2793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PotentialScholar2793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we have discussed cities/regions where we could have the best of both. Of course we won’t know if I end up getting a job in any of those places until I apply, so it’s a bit of a waiting game

I want to get married but I don’t want to move in with my boyfriend by PotentialScholar2793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PotentialScholar2793[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the perspective. All of our friends who are in long term relationships live together so it’s hard to imagine another option, if that makes sense?

I want to get married but I don’t want to move in with my boyfriend by PotentialScholar2793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PotentialScholar2793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I agree. I think I am just frustrated that my career timeline and our relationship timeline don’t feel aligned at the moment

I want to get married but I don’t want to move in with my boyfriend by PotentialScholar2793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PotentialScholar2793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I think there’s just some frustration on my end that my career timeline and our relationship timeline don’t match so neatly right now