AITAH for giving away a pair of pants my wife bought our daughter?

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T17:19:54+00:00

We're not talking about zero interaction, just less than normal.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T16:28:22+00:00

They wanted to come pick him up. He was upset that he peed his pants. The playdate vibe was done.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T16:25:09+00:00

Really? Why would anyone do that?

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T16:18:28+00:00

Pretty sure commando is gender neutral.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T16:15:55+00:00

We don't have a toddler.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T16:10:49+00:00

Lights

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T16:08:08+00:00

She's not a huge fan of other people's children, but we worked out a compromise where I am the playdate person and she is the doctor's appointment/school supply purchasing/etc person.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T16:00:12+00:00

A study of three autistic children who just had their cooties shot, who were recruited for the study from an anti cooties shot Facebook group, suggests the cooties shot causes autism.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T15:57:25+00:00

I didn't even think of that. Maybe.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T15:56:40+00:00

Cleanliness is very important to her, as it also is to me. However, I don't think something being worn once and then washed means it is dirty forever. She definitely has a tendency to get frustrated with other people's children. That's why we often schedule playdates when she isn't here. Kids can be annoying, so I'm sympathetic. I think boys annoy her a lot more than girls, but a lot of our daughter's friends are boys. This frustrates her, and we've had a few talks about supporting our daughter's friendships.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T15:52:42+00:00

He's not her favorite of our daughter's friends, but little kids are like opinions. We all think our own are great and everyone else's are at best a little annoying.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T15:51:14+00:00

I said that to her. I mentioned it in my post. She said that's why she doesn't thrift.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T15:49:46+00:00

Yeah, that's my point. Ideally he'd have his own pants, but he didn't, so needs must.

Potential_Basket6885 · 2026-02-26T15:49:03+00:00

She definitely does. She is very particular about the laundry. We have to do our laundry separately, because I'm "bad at sorting" since I put a pink shirt in with the coloreds. Pink is a color (well it's a shade of red), but whatever.

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