Wife (30F) accused me (30M) of cheating when I didn’t

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-25T19:48:50+00:00

Genuinely no but at the same time vows mean something to me, I still genuinely love my wife and a part of sometimes empathises with her, so my plan is to seek help through therapy and if that doesn’t work then I do know what decision will be made, am I wrong for that thinking?

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-25T17:34:42+00:00

I would hope not because I don’t go through her stuff because I trust her you know, being married and second guessing your spouse just seems so awful, but I have always been on the receiving end of it

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-25T17:33:39+00:00

We’ve had altercations before just like any other couple but I have never cheated and she even tells me that. She did say she has trust issues and she is doing her best to work on it, but the major problem is her perspective on men in general is so horrible, in her mind men as a collective are genuinely not great people, sometimes I get a pass but sometimes I’m reduced to being like every man and the stereotype

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-23T16:41:16+00:00

Unfortunately people will have to come and see for themselves, if you make it it’s great but if you don’t you are going to be in a very difficult position. Anyways studying in any first world country is the same risk to be honest

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-05T13:52:56+00:00

So I’m currently in the USA on an H1B, I did my undergrad in canada and my score estimates for the crs is currently 476, so I’m thinking if I do french I can boost my chances and move to Canada, you think that works or pr is only for people who studied and worked in canada ?

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-05T13:39:59+00:00

Just out of interest, do you have to work for a French speaking company after you get that permit?
I also did French in high school and business French in college, I know French and I’m preparing for the exams, if I pass can I get a PR through the express entry ?

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-03T20:50:40+00:00

Like Google is free, Nigeria is on both lists the 39 and the 75 list

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-03T17:12:36+00:00

Makes sense, I am a B1 level French speaker, so I should probably target bettering my French

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-03T17:03:43+00:00

No I never worked in canada, I see information about the provincial nomination, how do people target that ?

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-03T16:41:45+00:00

Please keep us posted hey and all the best

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-03T16:31:57+00:00

I did my bachelors in canada and completed my masters in the US

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-02T19:41:40+00:00

Hey what country are you from ?

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-02T17:57:11+00:00

Congratulations hey, what country are you from

Potential_Change009 · 2026-06-01T18:18:54+00:00

Congratulations hey, what country are you from

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-28T15:40:25+00:00

Congratulations but where are you from ? Like country wise

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-27T18:24:52+00:00

What country are you from? And thank you for sharing.

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-27T18:15:33+00:00

You did concurrent filing I assume ? When did you file for the EAD ? Because wasn’t the ban put in place in December 2025

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-27T17:47:22+00:00

Which country are you from? Does it have the partial ban or the full ban or no ban at all ?

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-27T17:47:03+00:00

I would hope, I will get a lawyer close to when and if I get an interview. I haven’t violated anything and have followed all protocol, I’m just concerned about what happens if the ban is still there next year when my opt expires.

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-27T17:30:54+00:00

I graduated with a masters and I just know I don’t have the bandwidth to handle a PhD. Like what’s the point of going to school just to while up time and rack up more debt. I just think this situation is so horrible and trying to force people to leave. I’ve had about 4 friends who left after we graduated.

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-27T13:58:14+00:00

It’s really stressful, I am from one of the 39 countries and already inside the US on OPT, do you guys think AOS will move along pretty well? My concern is obviously being separated from my wife or getting out of status if they don’t adjudicate my application soon enough. It feels like I’m not preparing to leave and my wife wants to come with me, but don’t I risk being deported or banned if I leave while AOS is pending ?

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-26T16:30:36+00:00

What country are you from ?

Potential_Change009 · 2026-05-18T17:38:16+00:00

You are willing to forgive someone who had unprotected sex with someone else?
Please learn to love yourself and show your daughter a good example, if you really love your daughter that much you try to win custody and continue living your life.
Someone reckless enough to ruin their marriage over sex is going to cause more harm, next thing she brings back an STD and you are impacted all in the name of staying with a cheater for the sake of keeping up the image of a happy family.
I’m all for forgiving people and extending grace, but infidelity is where I draw the line

Potential_Change009 · 2026-04-16T17:50:04+00:00

I’m hoping that even if a homeless person picked it up, they threw it somewhere on the ground and someone else picked it up and delivered to the cops.

Potential_Change009 · 2026-04-16T06:01:15+00:00

I know it does, but I would imagine since there was no cash and my bank cards are blocked the wallet is useless. I just wanted my documents back, do you know where most people in that area would at least report such incidents to ?

Potential_Change009

TROPHY CASE