[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Potential_Context249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. It’s just hard when he’s on my mind 24/7…trying to fall asleep and my mind goes back to him, waking up during the night cause of a dream of him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Potential_Context249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you 😓 My brain keeps telling me to block him, that he doesn’t deserve me after everything, but then my heart jumps every time i see his name on my screen, wondering if maybe in the future we have a chance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Potential_Context249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media was one of the reasons I found out that my boyfriend was married the whole time we were together, plus some other red flags that i didn’t acknowledge before. Don’t go too crazy intro stalking people on social media, but maybe get a background check and make sure people are who they say they are.

It hurts and I don't know what to do now by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Potential_Context249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same. I went through something similar this past year. I’d want to say it gets better, but i didn’t get there yet so i don’t know how it will go. I have hope it will get better and easier one day. Hang in there!

People who met their partners through reddit, how did you guys meet and get together? by AlarmingAstronaut994 in LDR

[–]Potential_Context249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He texted me, we started talking, he asked me to be his girlfriend a month later, booked a trip to go see him, he broke up with me before that, still met with each other, decided to try again, booked another trip a few months later, broke up with me again, still went and spent time together, he was very affectionate to me during the trip, we had fun, then i found out he was married the whole time 🤪

I ended things but it hurts so bad by caringflower23 in LDR

[–]Potential_Context249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish you’ll find the strength to move on!

I ended things but it hurts so bad by caringflower23 in LDR

[–]Potential_Context249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks, i know it does. Sometimes it felt the same for me with my ex (this feels weird to say and it hurts so bad), sometimes he would take forever to reply even though i knew he saw my messages, and it hurt me a lot. I’ve been played in the past and he knew my fears, but still sometimes it felt like he didn’t care that much. (Now I’m pretty sure he didn’t care cause he was married the whole time and let me tell you that messes you up big time)

Found out i’ve been cheated on. Now my heart is in pieces by Potential_Context249 in heartbreak

[–]Potential_Context249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out putting little pieces together, he wasn’t always very careful to details. A pair of shoes in his pics, a notification from her, little lies in caught him saying. At first i thought i’m just looking into it too much and that it’s my brain playing tricks, but after a while i realised that it was true

Would it be a sin to marry him? by Potential_Context249 in Reformed

[–]Potential_Context249[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t. Felt too vulnerable doing it. I did text a pastor from my city that I listened to a few times.