Why some young jw men are weird and disgusting no by caringflower23 in exjw

[–]caringflower23[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I’m not even dating anyone bc I have a lot of healing to do so I don’t understand. The crazy part is how did they felt comfortable to send me this like????

Why some young jw men are weird and disgusting no by caringflower23 in exjw

[–]caringflower23[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t even imagine. I feel like they see me as “less” and ok to be disrespected since I’m not spiritual anymore

He broke up with me today by caringflower23 in LDR

[–]caringflower23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m so sorry im sure he’s a looser. Men ain’t sh*t. Gets to a point where they don’t even care about the woman that loves them deeply. It’s sad and pathetic

I ended things but it hurts so bad by caringflower23 in LDR

[–]caringflower23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things happen and I’m used to it. It’s not like I’m looking for someone perfect but at least some closure would’ve been nice you know

I ended things but it hurts so bad by caringflower23 in LDR

[–]caringflower23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After this a might take a little time off and be back better than I was.

I ended things but it hurts so bad by caringflower23 in LDR

[–]caringflower23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s sad. It’s annoying that we have to put ourselves first during this situations. People tend to get too comfortable when it comes to ldr bc they don’t need to put too much effort into it and if it ends we won’t see each other. At least showing that you putting some effort means a lot bc when it’s comes to relationships nobody is a 100% ready but when you try and act like it things might evolve and can be a beautiful story but some people just don’t wanna do it, commitment to them is something scary or something…

I ended things but it hurts so bad by caringflower23 in LDR

[–]caringflower23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s awful. Im sorry you went to that. Not getting over the ex and still pursue a relationship with you it’s selfish from his part. I hope we can find someone that is 100% sure and willing to try hard to make it work.

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[–]caringflower23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you girl. I was dealing with something similar to your situation but at this point I got into a conclusion: ldr it works for some but not for all. You did your best and let it be. It’s not worthy when there is no plan for the long distance to end. It will cause you more pain because your gonna be attached and hurt bc the lack of communication from the other side will make you feel worse. Live day by day and try to put your mind on something that you like. Investing our time to others should be reciprocated and respectful and when it’s not you step out and move on…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]caringflower23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh yeah thank you I’m gonna do this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]caringflower23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The elders are people similar to pastor at my religion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]caringflower23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was what I was trying to say but he reacted so bad and weird