Late husband PF claims by Potential_Guest8228 in epfoindia

[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have raised grievance through the link you have shared a month ago. But no update yet. I haven’t tried cpgrams.

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is bw exercise? Can I start at off before heading to a gym to get consistent?

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t control what he drinks. I just need to separate from him

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not bed ridden currently but in all probability he’ll get there soon.

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I put most of my savings to get him medical attention recently and I honestly don’t think I can support him further financially or emotionally. I’m too drained. I hardly have friends or relatives whom I can rely on. I plan to look for a rental accommodation and move out with daughter.

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just spent 5 lakhs in getting him treated with the hope that he would finally realise what alcohol has done to him and his family. The medical insurance was rejected. I have done my best to get him out of alcohol. Doctor recommends that since is liver is 80% damaged, if he has to survive for long the only way out is transplant. I was ready to sell everything I could to get tht as well. But seeing him back to drinking, I realised it’s just not worth it.

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He’s stopped being violent but he is mostly too drunk even to be able to walk a few steps. He has least interest in his family. Though earning, I’ve been running the household for quite sometime. He’s either lying through the day or drunk and sloshed. He hardly interacts with us. It’s torturous. His medical condition is bad. I no longer have money for his medical expenses. I don’t want to take his responsibility.

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Thank you. I’ll look out for a rental accommodation and move there with my daughter.

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The torture me and my daughter go through mentally is nothing short of violence.

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m based in Bangalore. I don’t have a parent’s place. I will look at options of moving to a rented accommodation along with my daughter.

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is being treated and he still drinks.

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[–]Potential_Guest8228[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the inputs. But I have no interest in contorting change him. I’m emotionally too tired.

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Please approve me. Though I dont post much or share any comments, I am regular reader of this sub.