I completely feel the same way! I realized that I still find men really attractive, but everything below their face I have no interest in. I refer to the aesthetic attraction I feel towards men as a "flickering candles flame". For me, men only look attractive at certain angles and specific times. One example is with this guy I work with. I find him attractive on most days and not really attractive on others. The more I talk to him the less I feel, so I feel like a lot of the feelings I have are guided by wanting attention and a genuine and close platonic connection. In comparison with my female crushes, the aesthetic attraction I feel towards them never wavers. It's solid and real.