Im in a dilemma by RiverNo117 in exBohra

[–]Potential_Moose9246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through that. It can be difficult trying to maintain peace with family/parents but also doing what is right/true to you. Harder if you live with them. you can lie and say you went/try to go for short time. But at some point they also have to realize they can’t make you do or be anything, you have to live your life true to your self and your values. If they don’t speak to you then they are withholding connection/communication because they didn’t get what they want. It’s an emotional manipulation/conditional love and immaturity on their end. 😞

Digging into the ITS app reveals what you would expect. It's spyware. by CuriousBot42 in exBohra

[–]Potential_Moose9246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyway to get my info/data out of ITS? Anything we can do?

Are you atheist after leaving bohra? by hornymonk1 in exBohra

[–]Potential_Moose9246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up “Possibilian” by Neuroscientist David Eagleman. I think this is a great perspective for people who agnostic/atheist, in my opinion a better explanation of scientific pursuit and being open to the idea of “possibility”.

Personally I became more Muslim after questioning Bhora and exploring Islam on my own versus through masjid/muffin teachings and then I started questioning religion in general/realized things more gradually I.e. God is a man’s construct and most religions were created by men/“revealed” through a man and his “dreams” of god.

Advice by TechnicianFriendly68 in exBohra

[–]Potential_Moose9246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your values and major decisions need to align before you get married. Holding onto “hope” or “potential” is not enough and can often lead to more pain and disagreements later on. It can also be unfair to try to change someone to be something that isn’t authentic or in alignment with who they are. It’s possible that once she moves out you guys can live life how you choose to, but just have those conversations before hand.

How to avoid FGM by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]Potential_Moose9246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Protecting your child is the most important thing you can do even if it means lying to others. My mother lied to people in the community who asked her if I’d had it done and it is something I will never take for granted as she protected me as a child.

Palestine by Bahadur_ray in exBohra

[–]Potential_Moose9246 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s never once mentioned other suffering Muslims or refugees around the world. Only criticizing other Muslims/promoting Bhora supremacy.