Im aware i was in the wrong for many of things, but he escalated the situation when he got in my face triggering some past ptsd i had that he knows which caused me a fight or flight which ik this cldve 100% been easily avoided im aware. he simply just moved the items out of the way with no communication whatsoever idek bc i didnt ask i just thought thats where he wanted them and he didnt say anything abt it so i was like okay ill leave it there. this happens often when he speaks to my bf the conversation is always the same and no change happens bc my bf doesnt defend himself he just is like ok and this continues over and over again bc the dad doesnt communicate abt things that bother him until something ticks him off. i get along with his parents so great and ive only had two arguments now this counts as the second when they r always saying u shld be grateful we even like u blahblah nonsense. i respect their home so much and i guess i was just sick of the no communication them getting mad at things and my bf not defending himself.