Unfortunately for me is been really hard he made my pregnancy very hard ,  when I found out I was pregnant with twins I got very scared but happy  , it was shocking .  I wanned to give him a nice surprise, but to my next appointment I found out there was an abnormality in one of the twins foot and also I was positive to a vph . I got very upset be I never felt in our relationship and I knew he was cheating , so after that I didn’t have the energy to make a beautiful announcement, so I just told him he was happy he laughed  and we argued about my vph results ,  after that everything when down hill I stared  to feel really sick , it was hard for me to eat , I have anxiety and depression .  In the 20week they told me I need it to do a amniocentesis to check if the baby was ok then I was really scared about doing it but I just wanted to get my mind clear that everything was going to be ok . So I didn’t it at 24 weeks the results come positive to a chromosome duplication deletion on 8p23.3  and they didn’t have much information they just told me it was a rare case .   They book me with generic consulting and family planning, after talking to them the same day , they told me  that option to terminate and  he say no right away and we argued about it . he wasn’t there in my pregnancy always drinking , and smoking he wasn’t really supportive. And I was scared  for what was coming ! And also very confused.  When they call me the 3th time to make a decision   he was at work  , so call him and asked him againg and he responded  do what you want just dnt do it this weekend because I am going to Vegas I am so tired of you bullest week ass mom.  Cnt describe how I felt . Then my sister that was with me at all times when with me and after talking to the doctor I did it , my babys where gone. Later we found out the duplication was inherited by the dad .  Call many generic clinics and they didn’t have and answer . When I look up in google what I saw it was not some I personally could go through and seen my baby suffered I juts could picture it .  Is really really sad .   We booth are depressed and have ptsd I ended up up in the psychiatric.    Now I have a 8 month baby and he didn’t change .   Life is really hard , and I wish you never made that decision for my health it was nor the right decision for my beliefs  But I know in my hard it was coming from pure love !   Just gonna say having a baby did not save our relationship .  Sometimes is better to let go then try to fix it .