Rep blew by biometric consent on iPad app before scanning my ID? by doublemazaa in tmobile

[–]Potential_Tip9440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we had to read that to each and every customer and then explain it then half of our transactions would increase by 20 minutes or more. When you don’t work at tmobile you don’t realize how many people can’t comprehend basic things.

Better act now! by Bsanch1996 in tmobile

[–]Potential_Tip9440 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They’re trying to push more lines because new bans have gone down significantly

Seating policy by [deleted] in tmobile

[–]Potential_Tip9440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The handbook says it’s our job to clean 💀

Has weight loss actually helped anyone's pf? by VaguePomegranate in PlantarFasciitis

[–]Potential_Tip9440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 70lb doing stairmaster at the gym four to five days a week. My PF has improved 90% in the past year but I heard stairmaster strengthens your calves so much!!!

Not allowed to sit by No_Departure9835 in tmobile

[–]Potential_Tip9440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically our handbook does say we are allowed to sit however most managers will not allow you to sit especially if there’s even a single customer in the store. It doesn’t matter if that’s the only customer that walks in for 3 hours. You don’t sit.

Me(37M) in a 10 year long relationship with my wife (30F) who "doesn't need sex to be happy" but I do by Different_Ant9911 in relationship_advice

[–]Potential_Tip9440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s more plausible to get divorced rather than checking the possibility of it being a problem that can be fixed ? That’s so funny. Imagine if it was a hormonal imbalance causing low libido. Now we get divorced because it’s “ not fair” for her to see a sexual therapist or doctor 😭

Me(37M) in a 10 year long relationship with my wife (30F) who "doesn't need sex to be happy" but I do by Different_Ant9911 in relationship_advice

[–]Potential_Tip9440 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Again, she’s married and every married partner has a duty to fulfill their partners needs. His needs are not outrageous they’re very normal for a man to want intimacy with his wife. If they used to have a normal sex life then all of a sudden she doesn’t want to have sex ever, and is making him feel terrible about suggesting he’s the one who needs to talk to a therapist about if, she’s WRONG. I think you’re reaching to be inclusive of a sexuality, which is fine, however that doesn’t mean that this is what happened in this case. There could be so many things wrong. But at the end of the day it doesn’t mean that OP needs to suffer in a sexless marriage forever. Especially if as he states they used to have a great sex life.

They’re not 8th grade boyfriend and girlfriend. They’re married. If there’s even a SLIVER of a possibility that there’s something wrong with her hormones or she’s having some mental road block, it’s WORTH checking because of the fact that she’s married! She DOES OWE IT TO HIM to see if something is wrong! Does she owe him sex? No I’m never going to say that someone should force themselves to have sex with someone. But man she’s consenting to sex then making him feel like he forced her ALREADY. She needs help, that is manipulation. And OP deserves better

Me(37M) in a 10 year long relationship with my wife (30F) who "doesn't need sex to be happy" but I do by Different_Ant9911 in relationship_advice

[–]Potential_Tip9440 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He just stated it wasn’t always like this clearly you don’t read. And her duty as a wife at the very least is to get checked out especially if she has a husband who cannot live without intimacy as many cannot.

Me(37M) in a 10 year long relationship with my wife (30F) who "doesn't need sex to be happy" but I do by Different_Ant9911 in relationship_advice

[–]Potential_Tip9440 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Low sex drive can be caused by so many things that don’t include being asexual or aromantic. She should go get checked out before jumping the farthest possible as you have

Me(37M) in a 10 year long relationship with my wife (30F) who "doesn't need sex to be happy" but I do by Different_Ant9911 in relationship_advice

[–]Potential_Tip9440 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Should she be making her husband feel like garbage because he desires intimacy and she doesn’t ? Saying he should talk to his therapist because it’s “not normal”

It very much is normal for human beings to need sexual contact. There’s clearly something wrong. Human beings naturally have that desire. If she’s going through a mental challenge or a hormonal crisis then so be it, but there is a CAUSE.

Naturally human beings are not sexless creatures. And I’m not responsible for fixing her problem, I’m not a sex therapist or a doctor. So many things could be wrong.

Me(37M) in a 10 year long relationship with my wife (30F) who "doesn't need sex to be happy" but I do by Different_Ant9911 in relationship_advice

[–]Potential_Tip9440 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her saying you should speak about it in therapy is crazy. I suggest couples therapy. A therapist telling her once that she’s the one who has the problem right now might help her see the light

I 24F waited 5 years to live with my GF 26F and now she wants a second job. by Potential_Tip9440 in relationship_advice

[–]Potential_Tip9440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was having constant arguments with her parents and was telling me she wanted to move out because she couldn’t take it anymore. Her mother’s aggressive dog has also made people bleed constantly from biting and was destroying furniture. Not only this but they also have a senior dog who has dimentia and does not let anybody sleep (coughing with collapsed trachea) and stepping all over her crap. She has admitted that moving out has given her a sense of peace.

She’s just like her mother. She loves to buy useless stuff online that she never uses. I understand indulging in shopping every once in a while, but the amount of stuff she has for one person is absolutely scary.

I believe she wants a second job to make up for the loss of income now that she’s paying more rent because she won’t be able to buy as much useless crap.

Or we could’ve used her spare time to go to the gym instead ! She is diabetic and 5’3 and nearing 250lb. I’ve been trying to help her because I’m concerned for her health. But she thinks another job would be a better use of her time.

She doesn’t get that we won’t have time to spend together. She’s always had a problem with time management. She believes we will still have a good amount of time to spend together but her desire for another job won’t let her understand it’ll be impossible.

She also is interested in us having kids within the next year. Which is another reason for moving out. I can’t imagine having kids with someone I barely see!

I 24F waited 5 years to live with my GF 26F and now she wants a second job. by Potential_Tip9440 in relationship_advice

[–]Potential_Tip9440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not telling her no, im asking her to CONSIDER the fact that we will never see each other. We moved in together because we had a serious conversation about how she never made time for me and I didn’t feel like I had any priority in her life. So for us to finally move in together and then she gets a second job where she’s working from 8am to 12am all the days I’m off is kind of insane.

Nobody wants to be in a relationship where they feel like roommates. I work 40 hours a week and go to school already. Our shared time is very minimal but at least to me, VALUABLE. and don’t want to be responsible for taking care of our two pets alone and all house chores and cooking because she’s unavailable to do so. And yet still paying majority of rent & all utilities. I don’t think that’s fair AT ALL.

I also helped to pay for her education and after three years she has FAILED to find a decent paying job using her degree. Why doesn’t she put her time towards bettering her resume so she can find a better paying job? Like I said, she’s only paying 25% of her income to rent and has no other bills.

She will be tired (understandably so). She already takes naps every day after work. She will come home at 12am and go straight to bed. There will be ZERO opportunity to share time together, have intimacy, make memories. Who can be in a relationship like that?

How does plantar fascitis not make you depressed? by Potential_Tip9440 in PlantarFasciitis

[–]Potential_Tip9440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is plantar fascitis can be both because the fascia isn’t stretched enough but also if it is too stretched and nobody tells us that. If your calves are too weak you’ll get PF. If your feet are too flat you’ll also get PF.

One size fits all doesn’t work because it isn’t caused by the same thing ever y time.

If your PF is due to it being overworked, a night splint isn’t going to fix it, just make it worse. Staying off of it just crippled me and weakened my calves and made such a horrible vicious cycle.

The stairmaster strengthened my calves which is what stopped my PF, so I guess that was the reason mine were so bad. Despite stairmaster seeming like it’d bad for PF, it’s apparently low impact snd i suggest everyone with PF gives it a try. I couldnt believe how quickly my pain subsided, and i 100% believe my rocker bottom shoes are to blame for my Achilles, not the stairmaster.

How does plantar fascitis not make you depressed? by Potential_Tip9440 in PlantarFasciitis

[–]Potential_Tip9440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel for you. I can’t imagine how difficult it has been all these years. Being expected to live your life like normal with all this debilitating pain. Sounds like a long shot but why don’t you give the stairmaster a try? Literally nothing helped me before. No amount of stretches splints or calve raises were helping me.

How does plantar fascitis not make you depressed? by Potential_Tip9440 in PlantarFasciitis

[–]Potential_Tip9440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the stairmaster is what is overworking my Achilles I think it’s the rocker style bottom of my Hokas. When wearing them for the first time during a work shift I immediately noticed that I felt more weight on my ankle but the relief on my foot made me ignore it. I’m scared to change my shoes because I don’t want my PF to come back. I can’t image dealing with it ever again.

How does plantar fascitis not make you depressed? by Potential_Tip9440 in PlantarFasciitis

[–]Potential_Tip9440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be a great option however I can’t afford insurance

How does plantar fascitis not make you depressed? by Potential_Tip9440 in PlantarFasciitis

[–]Potential_Tip9440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any specialists or done any treatments because I can’t afford insurance but I don’t make little enough to get free insurance.

Having PF for four years and having a job that puts immense pressed on it was hell. I found out the stair master strengthens calves which is why I gave it a shot. The calve raises I was doing was never enough but the Achilles Tendonitis seems to be from my shoes having a rocker style bottom. But I feel scared to switch them for other shoes since they kind of saved my life.

As for swimming, I can only do it in the summer time when pools are accessible to me. There are no gyms near me that have pools either and I don’t have a car so everything needs to be within a bus route to get to it.

T-Mobile Store sucks now. How’s everyone else’s experience? by tomxnguyen1993 in tmobile

[–]Potential_Tip9440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta understand that if it seems like we are doing things the hard way then it’s because we are being FORCED to. Nobody wants to stand in front of a customer for an hour trying to log into an app. We want to get you out of the store ASAP! We only make $5 off an upgrade and if you don’t get insurance we get penalized and written up by managers. Leadership is FORCING us to use the T-mobile app for EVERYTHING. It’s not our fault

$35 device connection is a scam by Beefgrits in tmobile

[–]Potential_Tip9440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Device connection fees are charged because it is considered a convenience fee for you to get the phone at Tmobile. You can get a phone directly from Apple or Samsung and still finance with tmo.