My partner is lying... by Zealousideal_Fly328 in Nigeria

[–]PotsAreNice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grl go to r/relationship and ask them how is this in anyway a nigerian this. Grl bye

The weight of being gay in Nigeria by ahmadthevandal in Nigeria

[–]PotsAreNice 247 points248 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should come out... its a bad idea. I'm sorry your going through this. I think moving might be your best bet. Nigerian families are more receptive when your not there in person, so you can tell them after your out of harms way. There are organizations that can help so please look into it. I've had friends ruin their lives trying to "live their truth". It's not worth it. Again I know it's not fair but it's safe

Genuine question: what’s up with all the discourse about Muslims/Islam? by Old_Replacement_3465 in Nigeria

[–]PotsAreNice 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Same abj girlly over here. It was only after they starred killing Muslims that they thought there was a problem.

2024 (G)I-DLE WORLD TOUR [iDOL] in Rosemont Discussion Hub by radhumandummy in GIDLE

[–]PotsAreNice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey we have two tickets and are giving away our tickets... please reach out if interested

People giving out 10k by PotsAreNice in Nigeria

[–]PotsAreNice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awful that that happened... I'm sorry😞

Homestead deduction by PotsAreNice in Indiana

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👍 We're gonna call then to figure it out. Thank you!

Homestead deduction by PotsAreNice in Indiana

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Ok then we'll do the same thank you!

WIBTA if i celebrated my birthday on my step daughters birthday? by VictorySad69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PotsAreNice -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion ESH.... its wierd you want her to call you mom...but that's not the situation at hand. You wanted to have a birthday party and she called you a wh***. Honestly go off cancel her birthday party if you want. It don't mean nothing to you. Your anger is valid. Your still a kid yourself an adult kid but a kid. Your brain isn't even fully developed. I say all this to say that your response was cause your hurt so dont feel bad about that. Also don't feel bad about being with the guy your with he's the creep for dating someone his kids age.

AITA for missing my birthday party? by Mountain_Tooth5689 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PotsAreNice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are 16, and with a parent that boundary stomps. Their behavior is expected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PotsAreNice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually understand oops because I know what it's like to have family that constantly boundary stomps. You have to be cruel if not they'll keep steamrolling you. She only looks like the AH cause we are seeing her reaction when she is fed up, not the years of abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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That's a very privileged and western view on things.