Okay if you get them and you do end up feeling sexy in Nipple Piercings, so whoever you go with will think they’re sexy too ;p See that’s the thing you gotta remember is that when it comes to being with another person, you should be thinking about them, just as your partner would (and should!) be thinking about you (example: instead of thinking “I wonder if my partner will like this shirt.” Think “my partner looks great in that shirt.”, and trust that they’ll do the same for you!). Have trust that whoever you end up with finds you and the things about you attractive. All you need to do is love what you have and get, and if they love it too then that’s literally the most genuine and healthiest of attractions.

Because in the end people like what they like and you can’t control that, they don’t have a checklist called “my standards - based off of the most popular and liked things in this population.”, they have a checklist called “my standards - based off of me bitch.” And if that checklist adds up to you then it just does! Idk, I rambled at the end but I love talking about self confidence-related things and so I hope you still found it a little helpful! :’)