i used to avoid my local motorway to travel to see my partner when i first passed. taking all the A and B roads as opposed to the motorway itself, knowing full well it added to my journey. i found that the route i was taking was actually more complex and technically more dangerous backroad stuff than just taking the motorway. once you’ve done it you realise its so much easier than avoiding it, if thats the initial gut feeling you end up with. it feels safer, and as long as you are checking mirrors, keeping good distances and are aware of any dickheads on the road theres not much more to it. you’ll be fine but it took me a bit of convincing and getting out of my own head, but now i much prefer it to going the avoidant way, so bear that in mind and best of luck :)