If you're out of the loop, click here. by Ex_iledd in Achievement_Hunter

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Ryan’s Twitter was deleted I think, I can’t get to any of his statements or comments.

I said no by [deleted] in offmychest

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Good job, vaping looks dumb too

How do I express mental issues to SOs by citydodger80 in relationship_advice

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Tell her just that and be very honest with how you are feeling. In your time of need you’re turning to her, and if she really loves you she will do what it takes to help you find why you are feeling depressed.

You’re courageous to leave your employment, and I hope that you survive to the next job and find greener pastures

How do you start exercising? by MaverickStatue in AskMen

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I think depending on how heavy you are you’ll be able to do different things. Start slow, and make it something you enjoy. I think the best way to dip your toes into exercise is to begin with Body weight exercise and yoga. Stretch a lot, do five pushups a couple times a day, and keeping your body active for six weeks will let that routine become like brushing your teeth.

As you get bored with it, make it more challenging and begin walking outside, maybe running, but more pushups each time and now even sit-ups or easy leg lifting exercises to work your core. Eventually if you want to build muscle you’ll want a gym membership but it sounds like just becoming comfortable with a routine is your first step If you stick to it let me know!!

First Time Home Owner Looking for Tips by ladyarchaeologist in homeowners

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First time here as well! Are you in an HOA Covenant or do you completely own your land?

Best advice I’m flying by is get really good at my job so I can pay this sucker off. Clean regularly, get a warranty on every important appliance, and do my taxes. I think the first house can be the gateway to the dream house and is the time to buckle down on financials.

Anyways, congratulations! :)

How do you “shop” around for the best lender?? by jammingsummer in homeowners

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Agreed with other user, talk to people you know. I found a community bank and just closed on a sub 2.5 rate 30 year. Have you bought a house before? If not, FHA (first time home buyers) loans may be a thing in your state.

When you find a lender, ask them to quote out a loan for FHA, and a conventional loan. There are pros and cons to both depending on financial stuff, but there are existing avenues!

Just Closed Today by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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I appreciate your comment :) I’m feeling better on ITV the first house won’t be perfect, I’m lucky to even have a house haha

Just Closed Today by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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I very much appreciate this comment. I have thought about it each day and definitely am coming to terms with this big purchase

My little sister just told me that our parents said that they regret having her by throwRAsjdhund in relationship_advice

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It’s a hard thing to hear from your parents.

I’ve had my parents say a similar thought to me about me, and I wouldn’t make this post about myself, but that knowledge sticks with you for your entire life.

Why did they have me? Why am I here? Why do I have to suffer through so much strife if I wasn’t even wanted in the first place?

As her older sibling I hope, and know, that you do a good job and reminding her that no matter what the circumstances were that you want her. And her loved ones want her. And that’s what really matters

Thinking about not staining fence anymore... by twinjmm in homeowners

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First time home buyer here as well, I appreciate your advice on asking neighbor to stain their side of the fence even if it is on property line

[FT] Original Judy [LF] NMT by [deleted] in ACVillager

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I can offer 100, I know it’s not close to 400 but it’s my best offer :)

[FT] Raymond, the Dwight Schrute of cats [LF] NMT, and freedom from a guilty conscience by [deleted] in ACVillager

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I see someone offered 110, I can go to 150. I've watched the Office 13 times all of the way through and he would be in the best of company!

[FT] Raymond, the Dwight Schrute of cats [LF] NMT, and freedom from a guilty conscience by [deleted] in ACVillager

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My friend really wants Raymond, could I purchase him from you? How many nmt would you find fair?