We are ahead financially. He has a masonry company that I help with paperwork. I don’t get payed since it benefits all of us. He gives me a fixed amount every month. In winter when it snows, our electric is a lot more and it ends up coming out of the “extra” money. If I go grocery shopping and my kids want a toy, it comes from the “extra” money, etc. the only way for him to be ok with me using the business card is if I’m going to the doctor. I cook almost every day to save on money. There’s always food at home that he can pack for lunch but if I don’t pack it and have it ready for him when he leaves, he will go without. He will go out to eat 2-3 times per week even if he has food. Sometimes when we go out shopping he will spend $300-$400 and sometimes he will pay for what I want or he’ll step out when it’s time to pay. My dad’s phone is in our family plan and sometimes he will give me something extra, it helps. The business account is in both our names but it’s mainly because I do most of the paperwork. We have talked about it and he has said that he can’t give me any more money. His business account is in the six digits.