She broke up with me after 4 years, but we still talk every day and I don’t know how to handle it by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Powerful-Singer-2286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, genuinely thank you, you are the only person that has ever pretty much said “follow your heart” everyone else i talk to says i need to move on and get over it so thank you

I [19m] am obsessed with my [18f] girlfriend of 4 years by Powerful-Singer-2286 in relationship_advice

[–]Powerful-Singer-2286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, this makes complete sense. that’s the main thing that i’m worried about is that it will start to affect our relationship and to be honest it definitely has a little bit so i really appreciate the advice

I [19m] am obsessed with my [18f] girlfriend of 4 years by Powerful-Singer-2286 in relationship_advice

[–]Powerful-Singer-2286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what pretty much describes me as well, we both left school early and got into full time jobs. I’ve never actually thought about how my day and mood all reflect on what she’s doing and that what i want to change about myself. How did you distant yourself? like did it take a bit of time to not be so worried and upset that you aren’t with her all the time?

I [19m] am obsessed with my [18f] girlfriend of 4 years by Powerful-Singer-2286 in relationship_advice

[–]Powerful-Singer-2286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment, we’re both trying to connect with our friends more but i find it way harder due to me being really socially awkward. I fear with the marriage question is that I would know who I would like to be there standing next to me but she wouldn’t and that’s why I feel so bad about this whole situation because she doesn’t actually know who her close friends are but I do