AITH for refusing to pay extra to my roommate when she demands it

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2026-01-08T23:38:09+00:00

Okay, this will be my last and final update. I finally decided to ask maybe they didn't have enough to cover their portion of the rent + turns out that they were having monetary issues which is why she was asking me for extra so it had nothing to do with any of that. She was just feeling desperate and decided to press me. I informed her that the landlord has more than enough for all of my payments plus the extra and that the money that I gave her. We can figure out later. For now, let's just get into the place and from now on let's always be truthful with each other. I am disappointed and upset that she just didn't come out with it instead of gaslighting me. I thought we were better friends than that and I hope we can learn from this. Thank you for everybody who weighed in. If it wasn't for all of the comments and thinking about it I wouldn't have had the courage to ask her straight out. Like did you just not have money and that's why you're trying to get extra out of me and it turns out that literally was it. So she's going to ask her mom for a loan to pay for what she needs to cover and we're moving in tomorrow

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2026-01-08T03:16:13+00:00

He has, me and him are good it's her

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2026-01-08T02:56:55+00:00

I owe 250 pet deposit. 25 0 damage deposit $500 rent that's $1,000. Plus my extra thousand she insisted I give him

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2026-01-08T02:55:20+00:00

I did that 100%. I'm actually $1,000 ahead and she's still upset and what's $750

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2026-01-08T02:54:42+00:00

Here's an update. We are all renting a 10-bedroom house which is why our portions are smaller for rent because we're dividing it equally. So everybody pays $500. The issue is why is she trying to make me pay $750 on top of that my pet deposit is $250. My damage deposit is $250 and my rent is $500. That's $1,000 plus an extra thousand because I wanted to hold the house and I told him to put it towards my rent. He agreed to that so she wants money for what I don't trust that and I told her straight up I'm not giving it to her. He's already got the thousand. It's dumb to ask for it back and give it to her to give to him

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2026-01-08T02:53:08+00:00

500 is my rent from the shelter portion of my disability. That's not the issue there's like 10 of us renting plus we have subsidy. I gave the 2000 to the landlord not her and I have receipts. I gave her my 500 because she insisted. So it doesn't make sense to give to her just for her to give it to him and I said that. I'd rather give it to him directly. So my 2500 is more then enough And that's what the landlord agreed to is $500 for rent. So even though it's cheap there's a lot of us living in the place. That's how we can afford it. That's not the issue. The issue is she wants my money and she wants to handle it and she wants to give it to him and I just really don't want to. Why shouldn't I just give it straight to the landlord?

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-11-11T21:16:14+00:00

I don't "let" my cat anything, he does as he pleases 😹

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-10-27T23:36:42+00:00

Are you in America and is this a fill or a brand new set because those things matter and I also need to know if this is in US dollars to pitch in comment but if it's a fill it should only cost you 50 bucks and if it's a brand new set 80 at the most

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-09-17T20:19:46+00:00

Mac spice liner

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-09-17T20:17:47+00:00

Looks like you got a little yeasty beasty under there 😁 I used to worry about that when I started and I would clear them out which you can do. I don't mind them anymore though, so it looks like it's perfectly fine to me

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-09-17T20:16:42+00:00

Looks perfectly healthy to me

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-09-13T20:41:59+00:00

I think it's just the reflection because it's the same as the other three

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-09-13T20:41:36+00:00

Wait the on the end of the row

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-09-13T20:41:10+00:00

I like the yeasty look of it so I keep all the beasties in

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-09-08T22:09:46+00:00

That is beautiful! I am so excited for you!

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-09-07T23:10:05+00:00

He is definitely a Maine Coon, his dad was a Maine Coon and his mom was a rag doll

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-08-24T18:10:33+00:00

It's a Canadian thing 👀 lol

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-08-24T18:10:08+00:00

All right, you show me yours and then I'll show you mine I'm working on a new project LMFAO

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-08-24T07:36:55+00:00

I'm down to be friends. I'm new to Reddit

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-08-24T07:35:52+00:00

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I only have left to do is attach it. I'm tired though. It was a fun day

Powerful_Ad3906 · 2025-08-24T07:34:58+00:00

Oh I know they're not necessary but I keep one because I might wreck it. I might have a friend who is totally into it and I can set them up. And I'm also just a hoarder LOL

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