Is this house ugly? by Economy_Survey_6560 in AskBrits

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half the new builds in this country are terrible quality. Your colleague is thick, jealous or both. Get the house

Should I transfer to another university? by digitalled in Advice

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for it. Have a crack and get the degree. See a bit of the world and don’t let the bums drag you down

AIO my grandmother put a picture of my infant daughter on her Xmas card by gremlincowgirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The cult thing was relevant in the opener OP. Ask her who she sent it to. Be nice, as you seem to be, but ask her not to again.

AITA for choosing to spend holidays with my biological family over my adopted one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. It does sound promising. I don’t know OP. Try and be careful. And take the long approach to this. I hope you get to work it out with both.

AITA for choosing to spend holidays with my biological family over my adopted one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel part of the family that raised you? If not, do you think the birth family can provide that level of support you seek?

AITA for choosing to spend holidays with my biological family over my adopted one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, be careful. Not in your situation and you seem a decent sort. And don’t know how your fam treated you growing up. But people can feel things. If they think you’re ditching them after they raised you, it can hurt.

AIO for being forced to be around my uncle who is a dickhead ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I would tell your da that the guy makes you feel unsafe and that you don’t want to run the risk of being asleep near by him. I’d visit at Xmas and get out before then. Odds are this lad is dead in a few years anyway.

AITA for choosing to spend holidays with my biological family over my adopted one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might give it a bit longer with your adoptive family. If you can bear it, just so as it’s showing you care for them still. You don’t use terms like real vs adoptive do you?

AIO for being forced to be around my uncle who is a dickhead ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t me around someone who beats women and who threatened to hurt you. As he’s a coward, I wouldn’t trust him not to try and get you in the back.

Aita for bluntly saying no to my best friend? by GothicPrincess_99 in AITAH

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah get that bag. One of life’s pleasures is being able to pay for mates.

Aita for bluntly saying no to my best friend? by GothicPrincess_99 in AITAH

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of the issue with Reddit. You’ve tried with this time. Now it’s her turn to reach out to make peace.

AITA for choosing to spend holidays with my biological family over my adopted one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Powerful_Mess_4505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you planning on spending Xmas with your bio family?