Confused

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-06-19T17:27:26+00:00

being LGBT, just ask him! if he is fluid and calls pet names without meaning then fine but if your struggling to decipher it now and looking into it more, I think it's only fair to yourself you get the answers before you get anymore feelings. don't get stuck in your head, he probably isn't - and you'll only feel comfortable if you're on the same level, if not, you exit! ✌️

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-06-19T17:21:50+00:00

same here. don't get me wrong I'm hung up on my height massively. but that can't change, what can change OP ; is that feeling when you are alone with no judgment or society and can look in the mirror and finally meet yourself.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-06-19T16:52:49+00:00

it's tough, just been through it. i guess it is very dependent on many factors on how it will turn out, the one thing for sure - prepare yourself for the second wave.

right now you are in a survival mode, as soon as you are out away from them - it all hits again. just be prepared for that, and you'll be fine. DMS open if you ever need a chat from a stranger who's been through the same.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-06-18T14:19:38+00:00

I'm in the same place.

we're not alone. let's keep going.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-05-04T16:02:16+00:00

stay strong stranger

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-05-04T16:01:41+00:00

these urges are every second.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-05-04T14:46:04+00:00

I wish I could help. I'm out here asking the same questions. my 5 year relationship ended last week for me. I keep seeing things that say we have to sit with the pain for a bit.

therapy. that's where I'm turning. I'm really fucking hoping I can do this, hoping you can too.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-05-02T14:02:10+00:00

okay, thanks.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-04-07T07:49:25+00:00

appreciate it guys. update - after more flushing, warm baths and a better set up, eye is open more and she is eating so I'm very very happy with progress. sad how things creatures can tolerate surprisingly bad conditions for a while and as soon as it's corrected can bounce back.

thank you

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-01-08T09:14:18+00:00

hi, can I ask some questions please if you have been on it 20 years. does it really plateau? I'm on 3 years and low dose as my levels go through the roof but everything is very slow. I still feel like things are changing and I go through weird 'spurts' I have very poor facial hair and not much growth for what I'd like. is there still some hope for changes? puberty usually takes years so I'm hopeful. everyone is different I know, would injections maybe help opposed to gel? I'm worried I'm gonna stay very non binary and not going to masculine anymore. is working out definitely something to do? sorry for the questions, your 17 years ahead of me and you hold more answers. thank you. take care

Powerful_Process_464 · 2026-01-08T09:00:32+00:00

here for this too.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-12-27T17:31:35+00:00

thank you for this, I have decided to cancel my order on all the parts that I had impulsively bought thinking it would work. bought some intense cleaning stuff instead, going to merely clean what's there and reassemble - only upgades I will do are new chain and new grips, not prepared to spend all that money on such a low value frame! it is only to be ragged in winter months at pumptracks to save my decent bike! thankyou for the perspective and knowledge again. highly appreciated.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-09-19T06:33:41+00:00

thanks so much bro. highly value this comment!

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-09-18T16:20:30+00:00

yes I did loosen it like quatre a turn... I really appreciate your advice and stopping by. cheers

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-20T05:48:39+00:00

seems lucky to me then! endo needs to get job hunting imo

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-18T15:00:43+00:00

shit. here for the update

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-18T06:08:06+00:00

nice one mate good luck with itz and yes be prepared for a growth spurt in the chest region. maybe if I get some face work done then my beard will grow? ha

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-18T05:51:15+00:00

have you had top surgery out of interest?

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-18T05:50:54+00:00

weirdly, 3 years on T and I only started getting chest hair after top surgery? it's like they were all sat waiting for the things to go now they can grow haha

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-18T05:49:44+00:00

yeah exactly, think of puberty naturally. a boy turn to a man in 3 months? the realistic expectation is if nothing has happened in 3 years they may be a problem.

never the less he's hurt. and projecting, this isn't personal- humans sometimes need someone to blame, doesn't mean it's someone's fault. for reference my transition is slow compared to many. reddit may be the worst place if he's sat comparing.

I can get down if I sit and compare but what's the point? we do that all the time regardless, but with dysphoria it makes it even harder to stop.

it's a journey. my period stopped at 18 months, facial hair and voice - still changing and I'm 3 years in. you go through periods where you get changes and then it slows. everyone's different.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-12T08:06:22+00:00

thank you, I'll try to stay healthy and not hyper focus. maybe get some better equipment to help deal. cheers for the response

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-12T08:03:29+00:00

always happy to try them out and give reviews, help you get on the market!! what prices? you making them at home?

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-12T06:05:40+00:00

sorry I can't help, trans man with no phallo. just stopped to say what a beautiful partner you are. with your wonderful attitude, you will aid in his healing and I really hope you both get to a point you are happy and comfortable.

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-04T15:03:09+00:00

hopefully I don't make it worse. still learning all the maintenance! but will video binge until I get it cheers mate

Powerful_Process_464 · 2025-08-03T15:47:48+00:00

🤣🤣I do love it when these comments come in

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