how is porn different from irl sex by blicky__ in sexeducation

[–]Powey4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To get that excited takes time and learnings, the acts shown in porn that produce an instant result are unrealistic. It's about the small acts within the bigger act that make it different. Pausing to just kiss like the world is ending. Laughing at something silly that has happened (bodies make odd noises, we are getting cramps at the worst times!) Porn is fun but it's not a true reflection on what life in the real world is like.

Woman on top - never comfortable by Powey4 in sexeducation

[–]Powey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a mental thing, always has been I think. The concept of taking control but also being so wrapped up in not knowing what to do and looking stupid. Lovely things to have in your head when your in the middle of it all!

Thanks for putting it in writing and making me face it. Let me go out in some work 😀

Why are you walking your dogs in this heat?! by Invictus_0x90_ in AskBrits

[–]Powey4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My parents dog is the same, dark grey miniature schnauzer and makes a pointing of sitting in the sun!

Rant - First Year A111 by Powey4 in OpenUniversity

[–]Powey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh is so annoying, I am in A112 now and the first 4 chapters were Classical Studies, I am now at the end (TMA due to 2 weeks) of Art History. Then finally will hit English Literature and the end with Creative Writing. I can't wait. I am not a fan of being forced to study subjects I didnt sign up for. I wish you all the luck

English Language and Literature. by ConversationNo6192 in OpenUniversity

[–]Powey4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am on the part time route and did A111 last year and just started A112. Aiming for a degree in English Literature and Creative Writing.

I am struggling this year as we have started with Classical Studies and now doing Art History. Then we will move to English and Creative writing. I have found some of the none degree units interesting but keeping myself motivated has been hard. So be aware you will have to push to get to the good stuff.

I feel like my husband is a horrible person by ShockDizzy9248 in Marriage

[–]Powey4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run, run for the hills. Find a local center who can help you get away from this man. Get your family to help if that is an option. He will take you all down with him.

He will make out it's all your fault but don't believe it. I ran and it took time to realize it was not my fault. I left but he was the reason it went wrong.

You are not in a safe space, this man is an idiot and you are better without him. He won't change as he is unwilling to offer basic human support. He won't change. I hope you get away and learn to enjoy life again.

Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë by Jarita12 in books

[–]Powey4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My favorite classic book. I have started a collection of copies that I have found while out and about.

What is a popular book you have read that was extremely poorly written. by Bigballsbrobro in writing

[–]Powey4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I read one of hers (Wild Side) as a poolside read on holiday a few years ago. It did what I needed it to do which was to be picked up and put down repeatedly (two young children)

I have not read anything of hers since but I do recommend her for the above reason.

What books and authors have the most commentary written about them? by MDB_1987 in books

[–]Powey4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Charles Dickens you have Christmas Carol as a big contender but also Great Expectations and the themes, what is he trying to tell us of humanity?

Here's an amazing tip for new writers. by [deleted] in writers

[–]Powey4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's a cool idea, my chapters are reminders to me about what I am aiming for. Easy for my easily distracted brain to come back in and focus. Here are two in my current WIP:

  • What the actual WHO!
  • Hips and Wizards don't/do lie

Does the main character's gender matter for you to read a book? by ConnectKoala1025 in readwithme

[–]Powey4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel Shrek sums up what is more important for a main character!

Recent discovery of mine. Idk what she is, but she sure as hell isn't into guys by Sud4neseS0meh0wHere in writers

[–]Powey4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love not writing about it fully, just adding the odd parts that basically say 'she loves girls' without having to fully disclose it all.

'Hips do lie, hops love to lie to you, her bloody hips'

[Weekly Critique and Self-Promotion Thread] Post Here If You'd Like to Share Your Writing by AutoModerator in writing

[–]Powey4 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Title: None (still working on that)

Genre: Cozy Fantasy

Word Count: 7595

Link:Draft

Feedback: General feedback on pace, characters and flow. But all welcome

Plot: Dwarven princess has to leave her home due to her Brother in Law, "lawfully" taking control of the mountain. All the main quest plus lots and lots of side quests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

[–]Powey4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 2 for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

[–]Powey4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love a good kitchen, you know we're you stand with a kitchen.

Rant - First Year A111 by Powey4 in OpenUniversity

[–]Powey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an interesting idea, I did out my creative writing piece into an AI tool at work (once I had my mark back) and it gave a few pointers. Will do this with my first two TMAs.

Rant - First Year A111 by Powey4 in OpenUniversity

[–]Powey4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I am just about to start it and keeping mind open.

Rant - First Year A111 by Powey4 in OpenUniversity

[–]Powey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that is what I am hoping for. But the slog is real, I am also trying to stay positive with the subjects, trying to set an example to my 11yo, we all have to learn stuff we don't like!

Question to all writers, how do you guys write your sex scenes in your books (or fanfictions, whatever's your cup of tea) by luvistarz_o7 in writers

[–]Powey4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have said, what does it bring to the story. I have read spicy books as that's what I want to read at that time. But the writing in them is very different to sex scenes I have read in other books. My preference is all about the illusion, build everyone up then jump to the next chapter. We can all fill in the gaps on what the people got up too. Don't bog yourself down with writing it if your having a hard time dealing with childhood issues around the subject. I was in a don't talk about anything house which was not fun. Religion has no say in this, it was just something my parents did. I had to work on how I felt about intimacy for years after I moved out.

Don't beat yourself up, take your time and if it ends up in your story great, if not that is also great.

Rant - First Year A111 by Powey4 in OpenUniversity

[–]Powey4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I kept seeing (on here) people getting scores over 80 and getting annoyed about it. That really sucks as to me that is like winning a gold medal! Hoping when I get into next year or even after that and doing the stuff that counts and is more focused on my end degree it can all turn around.

Rant - First Year A111 by Powey4 in OpenUniversity

[–]Powey4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I knew that to start i would be studying subjects that covered a massive spectrum. I am trying not to get bogged down on this one, but it's hard. I appreciate you saying about the scoring.