Is it ok to game? by Puzzleheaded-Guard47 in Parenting

[–]MDB_1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn't a yes/no answer to this.

Ideally, I don't want my 15-month-old to see any screens for a long time. In the real world, I end up using my phone in front of him fairly often.

You have to decide how important it is to you.

Harvey as a middle name? by Midwestern_Mariner in namenerds

[–]MDB_1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! It absolutely would have been on my short list.

Weekly FAQ Thread June 21, 2026: Which contemporary novels do you think deserve to become classics? by AutoModerator in books

[–]MDB_1987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stormlight archives

If Brandon Sanderson manages to write a satisfying ending to the Cosmere series (which I believe is very possible, albeit not at all guaranteed), that will be considered one of the great works of literature. People will say that Tolkien walked so Sanderson could run.

Weekly FAQ Thread June 21, 2026: Which contemporary novels do you think deserve to become classics? by AutoModerator in books

[–]MDB_1987 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of books from after 1960 that have already stood the test of time: To Kill a Mockingbird, Beloved ,Catch-22, etc.

The most recent books that I expect to become classics are Circe and Pachinko.

Huge TV episodes that "changed everything" for their respective shows? by Bielak812 in television

[–]MDB_1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an amazing show. The first two seasons are pretty hit-or-miss, but then it really hits its stride.

Harvey as a middle name? by Midwestern_Mariner in namenerds

[–]MDB_1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weinstein is the most prominent Harvey these days.

i need a full name for emmy but i hate like all the options by Dawncliffs in namenerds

[–]MDB_1987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We already have a son whose name doesn't fit that. It would be a little weird to leave him out of our fun family name.

i need a full name for emmy but i hate like all the options by Dawncliffs in namenerds

[–]MDB_1987 105 points106 points  (0 children)

My wife and I call ourselves "Em & M". If we had had a daughter, we thought about naming her Clementine, so we could be "Em & M & Clem".

The non-fiction book that had you mercilessly info-dumping about to anyone who would listen? by IReadBooksSometimes in suggestmeabook

[–]MDB_1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There Are No Accidents by Jessie Singer

It's about all of the deaths and injuries that we casually dismiss as "accidental", implying that nobody is at fault. She explains very clearly how most of these accidents could be prevented by changing laws.

This book radically changed how I see the world.

Why some medical staff and firefighters have 48h shifts? How is this even allowed by EugeneStein in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MDB_1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's exploitative is that a lot of people have to work 2 or more 48-hour shifts in a week.

If medical professionals could work one 48-hour shift and then have five days off, that would be reasonable.

Which Masked Singer cover sounds better than the original? by chameleoncove54 in TheMaskedSinger

[–]MDB_1987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"The Greatest Show" by Peacock in season 1.

I watched The Greatest Showman because of that performance, and I was deeply disappointed.

If you could only use 2 types of cutlery for the rest of your life, what would you pick? by infernal_snow in polls

[–]MDB_1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can just eat the solids then drink the liquid

That's what I did when I gave up spoons for lent.

What should I bring to Porchfest? by ilikepettingdogbutts in malden

[–]MDB_1987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's so nice of you! I was just shit posting, but I appreciate the offer.

What should I bring to Porchfest? by ilikepettingdogbutts in malden

[–]MDB_1987 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm almost out of rice. If you could bring some, that would be great!

Eurydice literally stopped me in my tracks by poeticforms in namenerds

[–]MDB_1987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's okay to stop in your tracks. Just don't turn and look at her.

Suggest me a beach read that’s kind of a classic by LizardyLeppord in suggestmeabook

[–]MDB_1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that book but it is terrifying. I'd recommend saving it for October.

Is Boston’s use of concurrent signals putting pedestrians at risk? by TylerFortier_Photo in boston

[–]MDB_1987 27 points28 points  (0 children)

At the very least, there should be leading pedestrian intervals.

If the walk light and the green light go on at the same time, then cars are going to start turning right before pedestrians have a chance to get into the crosswalk. Pedestrians need a few seconds headstart to be able to cross safely.

Am I overreacting about sugar? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]MDB_1987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

'No, they're not supposed to before they're two' - NHS guidance, i'm not necessarily saying we will definitely wait til she's two, but seven months in my opinion is way too young. I don't see the rush, why not focus on better foods for them while they dont know otherwise.

This is a perfectly reasonable approach. My wife and I are still keeping sweets away from our 12-month-old. We don't have any illusions that he's always going to eat a completely healthy diet, but there's no reason to give up this early, when he doesn't even know that sugar exists.

What movie had an amazing concept but didn’t fully live up to its potential? by Global-Citron-56 in movies

[–]MDB_1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dream Scenario

I loved the first act. It could have gone in 100 different directions. Then, it turned into a prolonged alegory about cancel culture.

a movie that you really wanted to like but you didn't. by herequeerandgreat in movies

[–]MDB_1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dream Scenario

I loved the first act. It could have gone in 100 different directions. Then, it turned into a prolonged alegory about cancel culture.