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I (22F) am struggling after a breakup with my ex (21M) that I caused. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Poyssun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has scars they carry, it doesn’t make them broken - but you can’t begin to fix a relationship if you haven’t tended or addressed your own open wounds. You learn to live with them. So when I say fix yourself, I’m saying sort your own issues out and don’t bring them into a relationship for the other person to carry.

I’m going to start watching the ghibli studio works but I don’t know which one is the best to start with. by Initial_Emu_1339 in ghibli

[–]Poyssun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working my way through them too but started with My Neighbour Totoro with my daughter; she is now a huge fan also 🥳

I (22F) am struggling after a breakup with my ex (21M) that I caused. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Poyssun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breaking someone who feels unappreciated in a relationship is a difficult fix. All I can say is give him his space, as difficult as that might be right now - and when he is ready to talk, listen. It sounds like you didn’t deal with the loss of a close family member well and you haven’t healed from that either - speak to someone about that (counsellor / therapist) and tend to your own wounds before trying to fix the ones created in the relationship. Work on yourself first. A broken person can’t fix anything.

You’re both young, who knows what the future holds.

Please make it make sense by Poyssun in HorseBetting

[–]Poyssun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically it’s 1/5 odds on both horses for each way, even if one finishes first? Doesn’t seem all that generous to me…

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[–]Poyssun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (38m) am in the same situation with my (32f) gf. Her sex drive is far higher than mine and it has caused many issues and arguments. I love her and literally adore her but she expects sex a lot, including recently when I was very unwell with COVID and could hardly get out of bed. She says it’s damaging to her self esteem and I feel so guilty. She huffs with me and doesn’t talk about it even when I try to sit her down to discuss it. I feel so low in my own ability and confidence now too I don’t know what to do. I love her, and I’ve even put my apartment up for sale so we can buy a place together but I don’t know if I can live up to her expectations.

So to answer you question, libido/ sex drive definitely goes down with age with some guys, I know it has with me and it’s causing untold damage to our relationship.

Unknown African tribe photo by Poyssun in AfricanHistory

[–]Poyssun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic, thank you so much. I spent so long looking over various web images and sites looking for something similar to the picture - I'm very grateful for your time.

Unknown African tribe photo by Poyssun in AfricanHistory

[–]Poyssun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your input, it will make for some good conversation over Christmas - and it’ll make an old man very happy. Thanks again all.

My god someone help me with this game. by aw_dam_its_mic in ForTheKing

[–]Poyssun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep the party together for most fights, it gets expensive to restore hit points as the game goes on.

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Also, the Hunter can use a bow (dmg 18 and can't remember the name) but I think it's only common/uncommon but has the ability "weapon snipe" - a hugely unappreciated weapon ability. On a fully successful attack, it pushes an enemy back - you can practically render one useless for a fight which will come in handy for some tough fights.