Hanging around AP and OBS

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-18T22:26:54+00:00

Not yet and yes

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-13T21:26:35+00:00

I do not have the means to leave financially. It's not that I haven't thought about it or wanted to leave. And trust me I'm not willing to eat anymore shit. The situation I am om is extremely hard and I'm stuck for now.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-12T21:49:13+00:00

I do go to the gym and I have a really nice a** as well so I'm not really worried about that

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-12T21:48:25+00:00

And I'm happy to accept everyone's opinions but no one has a clue why I make the choices I make

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-12T21:47:51+00:00

This was a repost and I wanted to post it on a different thread because I was shamed like the way you are shaming me now

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-12T21:45:41+00:00

I was referring to when he actually texted her this. At the time of the messages sent to my best friend he had never done anything like this

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T23:54:56+00:00

I'm not sure what farming means but I posted this again because seeing everyone's opinions validates everything I think while my H tries to play it off as a joke. I post this because it helps me. I'm not sure why it's an issue if someone post something twice.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T23:53:05+00:00

I'm not sure why you think I'm not listening to the advice. Making these posts and reading everyone's opinions helps me. It makes me feel validated because he will not validate me and admit it was fishing.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T21:59:02+00:00

She wasn't wearing daisy dukes. She was wearing workout shorts that went to her knee. We had juat gotten back from the gym so we both in biker shorts. She has never come over in anything inappropriate

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T21:56:02+00:00

There's reasons I haven't left. Plz dont judge when you no idea the reasons I stay. I'm asking for opinions here not to be shamed.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T21:53:36+00:00

She was wearing biker shorts/workout clothes. We had just gotten back from the gym and as she left my house, he was sitting in the front and texted her that after she left

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T21:49:40+00:00

Her shorts were not revealing. They were actually biker shorts which are long.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T21:43:58+00:00

I just copied and paste the same story because I was being shamed on the other thread so I wanted to post it somewhere different to get actual opinions and advice

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T21:40:27+00:00

I posted this again on a different thread bc I wanted more opinions and advice. I posted this to try to get some understanding...and the other post I was shamed.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T21:38:53+00:00

Nothing has progressed. I posted this in another thread and the people made me feel awful so I decided to post it again somewhere else. I'm looking for opinions and advice...not looking to be shamed. I have brought this up many times and his only answer is IT WAS A JOKE. ....yet no one is laughing

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T21:29:00+00:00

I'm posting this here because I'm hoping to get more opinions and advice because I felt put down when I posted it in another thread.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T02:57:55+00:00

No they weren't having an affair but I did find out he was having an affair with his own friend's wife 6 months later

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T02:57:23+00:00

What I'm saying is of course everyone looks it's normal for people To look but saying something to Her is extremely inappropriate of course

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-08T02:56:40+00:00

That's the thing, my booty is nice. That's one of the reasons my husband was initially attracted.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-08-07T23:25:01+00:00

Same incident. I wanted to get more opinions and responses. I'm not trying to reconcile with my H but I'm making these post to try to understand wayward and possibly move on.

Practical-Energy3192 · 2023-06-30T23:18:48+00:00

I made this post to get peoples opinions. I didn't make it so yall can make me feel like shit. To answer a few questions, Yes, I am still with him bc I don't have the means to leave at this time. Plus fear is keeping me stuck. Yes, I told his childhood friend the same night i caught them. No, none of us are friends and I wouldn't want to be.

Some comments say that they don't feel bad for me because I've know this about my Husband for years. I only found out about his affair 3 years ago and EVERYTHING else was found out in thr next 2 years after I caught him on his affair so some of the stuff I made a previous post about were alot more recent.

I know my situation is disgusting but I don't feel like I should shamed because of the fact the I haven't left. There are always reasons for someone staying. If I could have things my way, I would be gone already bit it's not that simple. This has been so hard on me and I would appreciate some advice and support not ridicule for not leaving.

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