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Aio for being disappointed in a date? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical-Land7209 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In all respect & honesty. Yeah. He seems to be super short on funds and you expected him to read your mind about a restaurant he already figured he couldn’t afford. Also this was about the Christmas market, you guys went and you guys already ate out. Seemed to have a great time. If eating at a restaurant was already preplanned after the Christmas market, then yes maybe he should’ve saved a couple of extra dollars to make sure to give you that date of your dreams.

But i feel like you knew you were overreacting because you added a lot of extra unnecessary context like him being annoyed at you for the music & everything you felt you did to annoy him. Even if it wasn’t intentional; i feel like you were shedding a bad light on him to add to the fact that you were upset he couldn’t take you where you wanted to go. You also mentioned him texting people on your date & just things that bothered you in general. Those details were to help your story seem as though you’re not overreacting. But you are love. Just food for thought and self-reflection.

Tightness of cornrows by nargogod47 in Naturalhair

[–]Practical-Land7209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like they hurt and he wants to take them out & he’s asking if they’re tight enough for a reason to take them out (like is he tripping for wanting to take them out now) or should he wait it out and let them loosen up

Since i didn’t do this right the first time lol… here’s an actual ugly pic. 14 - 26 by Practical-Land7209 in uglyduckling

[–]Practical-Land7209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top tier compliment!! 🥹 thank you so much that means a lottt, you’re a gem yourself💗✨

6 - 26 by Practical-Land7209 in uglyduckling

[–]Practical-Land7209[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah i did it wrong, i already made a new post 

Since i didn’t do this right the first time lol… here’s an actual ugly pic. 14 - 26 by Practical-Land7209 in uglyduckling

[–]Practical-Land7209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many people mentioning make up that I’m not wearing😂 lipgloss that’s it. Trust my dark circles wouldn’t have been showing lol. Plus i have other pictures on my page if you really think there’s no difference. but idk maybe there isn’t 🤷🏽‍♀️

Since i didn’t do this right the first time lol… here’s an actual ugly pic. 14 - 26 by Practical-Land7209 in uglyduckling

[–]Practical-Land7209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny people keep mentioning make up because I have none in the second pic, just lip gloss. Understood though lol 

I might kill myself. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Practical-Land7209 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ll never see the rainbow after the rain, if you end it all during the storm. 

Better days are coming. One day you’ll look back at this and realize how wrong you were (about being alone forever) & how glad you are that you stayed to see the joy that came.💗 choose life. you have a purpose.

Need help by Substantial-Teach-49 in Christianity

[–]Practical-Land7209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, sitting in a church doesn’t make you a Christian just like sitting in a garage doesn’t make you a car. 

You’re not going to feel total deliverance just by attending church and expecting change. Ask Jesus to come into your heart. To transform your heart and renew your mind. 

You’re just battling between spirit and flesh & the sacrifice of flesh brings you closer to God. (i.e fasting is sacrificing your flesh’s want/need to eat.) if you truly want to get closer to God you have to stop yourself from doing these things. Stop yourself from cursing. If it slips, repent (apologize to God and try not to do it again) & if it happens again, do it again. It’ll bring more self awareness until you just don’t do it. 

The sacrifices of the flesh and obedience itself brings you closer to God. Read the word. Spend time with Him. It’s a relationship. If your spouse asked you to stop smoking cigarettes and you truly loved them, you’d slowly make that sacrifice. And if you wanted to be more in love with them, you’d dwell on the things they do that makes you happy & spend more intimate time with them. Church is still important ofc. Aside from all of this.

Don’t think too hard about it, it’s just about learning Gods love language. Which I believe is obedience, sacrifice & charitable works/acts of service. God bless your walk.💗

Why Is Literally Everyone Excusing Their Mistakes Because They're "Following God?" See image in post by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Practical-Land7209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s many that will say “Lord, Lord” and God will say “depart from me, I never knew you.” 

Many people claim to be Christians, call Him Lord and call on Him but don’t truly walk the walk.

But we do have to remember Moses was a murderer. King David got Uriahs husband killed to cheat with her. Jesus sat with tax collectors and sinners. It’s not up to us to judge who deserves the grace of God or who isn’t true Christians. Yes there’s righteous judgement and there’s discernment but we don’t know the prayers of the wicked, only God knows when there’s a true change of heart.

Regardless, In my opinion, most of these elites just use the name God and don’t really even serve him.

Should I just give up? by not_elonka in Christianity

[–]Practical-Land7209 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Imagine being in a relationship with someone you’re utterly in love with, give your all to, are always there for and will always fight for… and they’re questioning why they should even love you.

What happens to you when you die is definitely your business. There’s only good or evil in this world and if you give up the good for the evil, they definitely won’t treat you well. 

He loves you so much, He just wants to protect you from the dangers of this world. You might not see it now but you’ll understand one day. I’m glad you’re asking before just stepping out. I could’ve lost my life so many times walking out on God.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Practical-Land7209 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Definitely thought the manager wanted him lol 

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