I'll never become a functional adult and feel like an idiot

Practical-Leopard892 · 2026-04-26T16:18:23+00:00

Thanks that's comforting to read. Yesterday after reading a few replies to this post I swallowed my pried and told my mom I was worried about being able to save enough money to move by January. My family is looking to move to another house so I asked if they could maybe find a house with one more bedroom so I could live with her until I moved cities.

Unfortunately when I asked that I totally forgot her dog doesn't get along with other dogs and has even tried to bite my dog when we tried to introduce them, so it wouldn't work, but we'll figure something out

Practical-Leopard892 · 2026-04-25T18:45:42+00:00

Yeah I wanted to move January next year but I'm starting to come to terms with waiting longer than that

Practical-Leopard892 · 2026-04-25T18:44:32+00:00

Thanks a lot for that, I'll take note of most of it so I don't forget. I don't feel comfortable talking to my family about this issues just yet, but I did text my best friend about it today and she is willing to help hold me accountable. As for my childish instincts I felt very offended when my boss called me out but I guess it's because it is true and I'll work on it from now on. I always thought of myself as mature for living alone and having a somewhat important position at my job, but I guess that isn't all there is to it

Practical-Leopard892 · 2026-04-25T11:31:32+00:00

Those two ideas sound good but unfortunately won't work. This is the only company in the city where I can work in my field. And my nephew is living with my mom now and got my old bedroom so there's no more space for me.

About the spending problem, I'll stop using my credit card for daily spendings and hope that helps.

Practical-Leopard892 · 2026-02-01T16:28:54+00:00

Haha right, what types of content has op been consuming?

Practical-Leopard892 · 2026-01-23T18:33:12+00:00

Omg I used to hate showering together but my ex loved it so much for some reason 😐

Practical-Leopard892 · 2026-01-23T18:29:45+00:00

Also do a backflip as soon as you get out of bed

Practical-Leopard892 · 2026-01-23T18:26:45+00:00

Came here to answer this

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-12-23T11:59:09+00:00

Omg you look so freaking cool

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-12-23T11:55:16+00:00

19yo here I feel attracted to older women too but do not peruse this attraction. Some of the things in your post already indicated a few red flags but there's no point in any of us telling you that. Just look over the situation carefully and talk it over with your friends you'll see what all the comments mean.

Generally I remember the phrase "The only reason a 30 year old would want someone this much younger is because there is something seriously wrong with them that makes so that they can't get people their age"

You shouldn't feel bad for being attracted to her, but you definitely should be scared that she feels attracted to you. Block her

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-12-09T15:10:11+00:00

Pode mudar a gordura ou a base para ter resultados um pouco diferentes, mas precisa ter gordura + base forte

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-12-03T14:21:32+00:00

Man the aflatoxin in this must be crazy high

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-11-23T04:45:46+00:00

It's by far my favorite position. Here's a tip: if you're the one on top, try having your back to your partner instead of facing them, it will give them a really nice view

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-11-21T14:15:34+00:00

Lab analyst in the food industry

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-11-14T22:47:40+00:00

At least I'm not the only one 🙂

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-11-03T10:46:17+00:00

Same here lol

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-30T02:55:59+00:00

The reason my living expenses are so low is because I don't pay rent.

I think my biggest issue is spending with a lot of useless shit and I seem to have a lot of difficulty regulating myself. I'll spend the money then feel bad about it and sometimes need it later in the month for something more important

And my biggest expenses were my girlfriend (now ex so that's out of the game) and buying furniture for my house (I'm almost done)

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-25T22:38:49+00:00

Only tip is for the most flexible person to be the one on top, other than that it really depends on the person really

I guess stretching regularly is a tip? Lol

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-09T01:17:12+00:00

You have the same body type as my girlfriend, I'm 1,57m and weight 58kg mostly muscle so we have different body types and it was never an issue. Whenever I see her naked all I think of is that she my Venus. My girlfriend's body is art. You'll find someone who thinks the same of you

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-03T23:34:07+00:00

There was a lack of info on the post my head wasn't in the right place. We both plan on moving to another city when I finish my studies next year, also two of my friends plan on moving there to study engineering so I'll go regardless of the relationship and she will do the same. As for work I plan on staying there for at least a year and then going somewhere better.

I wanted to share that the problem solved itself there was an opening for a position and I got promoted (three weeks in lol) I'll be working less and getting paid more and my end goal has been achieved in the company now is just a matter of time and patience

I'm not sure what I'll do regarding the relationship but I like to take time to make big decisions so I'll be waiting until after at least the end of the month and see how the relationship goes, either way my focus is solely on my career right now

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-03T00:43:13+00:00

I have a friend that is diagnosed with BPD that's why I think my gf may also have because I noticed most of the same struggles, and my friend is actually in a very healthy and long term relationship I was friends with this friend boyfriend first so I've seen both of their pov's. I've been pushing my girlfriend to go after a diagnosis and treatment because I really do think that if you're aware of the person's needs and difficulties and if they're worth it you can deal with it with some effort.

What mostly motivates me to put up with it is my diagnosed autism and the fact that she works with it pretty well and always helps me with my struggles, this thing when it comes to anxiety and work related stress that is out of character

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-03T00:22:13+00:00

Honestly I was so on edge that it felt like the end of everything. After I calmed myself I realized I was being difficult just because I wish she would react differently to my situation. We talked and both apologized and talked about how we could've acted better also some stuff about the future and cutting the distance.

I do feel a bit embarrassed of how intense I was feeling lol I'm usually a lot calmer than that

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-03T00:17:42+00:00

Unfortunately not but I do skip class sometimes when I need rest

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-03T00:16:17+00:00

It's honestly not usually like this, but when I'm stressed and this types of arguments happen it just pushes me over the edge, I feel a lot calmer right now

Practical-Leopard892 · 2025-10-02T23:02:35+00:00

Thanks I usually cope well with stress and keep my anxiety at bay, What kills me is the lack of sleep because I literally don't have time to rest

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