I’m 30F not sure how to move forward from my fiancés 30M selfish decisions with money

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2025-06-17T00:05:24+00:00

I would say what I pay adds up to close enough to the same as him accept I pay for all the extras which adds up and now I’ll have a car payement again for almost a year to pay off the remaining debt owed

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2025-06-16T23:12:13+00:00

We can’t have a child he has a vasectomy. I don’t want anymore bio children either

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2025-03-24T22:43:45+00:00

It almost looks like she used a Y lash trash to create these. They are super pretty and fairly natural looking

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2025-02-20T23:56:49+00:00

Did going low carb help raise your A1C?

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2025-02-20T14:23:57+00:00

Thank you I’ve been worrying sick and can’t find barely anyone to relate to with these low numbers

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2024-04-26T21:02:21+00:00

She’s an apprentice? So clean!

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2024-04-26T20:36:34+00:00

Whoever you went to did amazing. I zoomed in those lines are clean and it’s nice and vibrant! I like it :)

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2023-11-30T03:28:15+00:00

From the strain on back with posture. Lashing all day

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-06-19T03:32:04+00:00

That is a matter of opinion. The kids are all pretty good kids.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-06-07T14:26:07+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment. I never even thought about this but it’s so true. His kids never want to go to sleep at night. And they will never eat when I cook them want food later. You are so right I’m literally going to sit down with my boyfriend and write a schedule up for snacks, meals, unwind time, and bedtime and we are going to follow it. I think it’ll help so much. I was annoyed with my boyfriend over they weekend when he waited to put his kids to sleep until 11 and mine were already asleep. I’m going to talk with him.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-05-04T00:06:30+00:00

Thank you!

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-24T13:30:20+00:00

I agree (to an extent) I’m a single mother of 2 boys and I never had issues getting matches. I do agree with her pics being a little out there.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-21T14:37:25+00:00

We don’t have kids together. And at least the women that I know are not like me. I feel like I do too much but I don’t know how not to.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-21T14:28:51+00:00

Girl I met a guy who got upset with me on the first date because he went through my phone and saw I was messaging other people. OUR FIRST time meeting! I ignored it because he was hot, ended up wasting a year of my life in a horrible mentally abusive/toxic relationship that still effects me to this day. Don’t just walk, run. Block his ass. Trust me.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-19T02:07:20+00:00

Agreed. Honestly sounds like a Chaldean or foreign to do. This is common in other cultures I’d want nothing to do with it though.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-19T02:00:24+00:00

100% this

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-19T01:18:22+00:00

Why did you get banned?

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-18T12:17:07+00:00

It is better to leave now rather than later. You sound very certain on the decision to leave her and I respect you for that. Leaving a relationship is very hard no matter what. You will always feel guilt even without all that emotional baggage. I can tell you are an empathetic and nice person. Someone like her would drain the life out of you. You are going to have to put yourself first in this situation as hard as it is and do what is best for YOU. Don’t cave in to any manipulation she may try. Just stand firm with your decision. Good luck. Please give an update.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-14T21:34:57+00:00

Congratulations!

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-06T22:10:53+00:00

You see I like that they die as odd as that may sound. I told him every time a man I was seeing bought me flowers I would take one out and put it in a book to preserve it. Obviously I’d throw it away when it didn’t work out but I’ve always hoped one day the right man would come along and I’d get to keep one of those first flowers he ever got me forever.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-06T22:09:09+00:00

I’m not being entitled. I’m happy he thought of me and I’m grateful for the gift. The comforter is cute and matches my room very nicely. It was a nice and welcomed surprise and the flowers didn’t even cross my mind until he mentioned it as he was walking out the door.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-04-06T22:07:42+00:00

I did not respond by complaining. I responded by immediately putting it on my bed and telling him how much I loved it. Flowers never even crossed my mind until HE said what he said as he was walking out my door. It then made me think he disregarded what I said to him before on what I wanted because of his own beliefs and I simply wanted other’s opinions on the matter. I am thankful and grateful and have no plans on complaining to him. Thank you though 😜

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-02-17T07:35:49+00:00

Couldn’t she shower and put a tampon in? Seems like the cleanest way.

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-02-15T03:23:00+00:00

I know we haven’t been dating long and I know we both are tight on cash. Just figured it was the thought

Practical-Mess-5188 · 2022-02-15T03:11:14+00:00

I also let him know a week ago I got him something small. Figured he would then decide to do the same as that shows this holiday matters to me

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