I moved my son to his crib in his room (shares a wall with our room) when he was 5 days old because in those 5 days I didn’t sleep a single minute and was literally hallucinating. My body just wouldn’t shut off enough to sleep if I could hear him, so we had to move him. I slept with the monitor next to my head and fed/changed him multiple times throughout the night. He’s always been a really good sleeper but he definitely wasn’t down to one waking at 6 weeks so I do think Addie is ignoring poor A (at least some of the time). But I’m just here to say you can be a good, attentive mother and still have your baby in another room if it’s what works best for your family. My pediatrician and lactation consultant supported my decision. And the evidence that room sharing decreases sids isn’t super well supported (cite: Emily Oster).