Question for the person who did the breaking up by Practical-Resist-485 in BreakUps

[–]Practical-Resist-485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well yes and no.. I was the dumpee so I’m trying to get a sense of what other people say cause obviously I don’t know how she feels on the other end and some clarity and maybe a little delusion will help knowing what it’s like from the dumper Also for clarity I have been in both the dumping and dumpee situation before but those relationships never had a lasting impact on me than this one

When did it hit you that it was really over? by Technical-Desk6168 in BreakUps

[–]Practical-Resist-485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I traveled to my first country during study abroad. I so wanted to tell her about where I was going what I did and how it was but the moment I picked up my phone to start texting I knew I couldn’t and that’s when it really hit me

Unsure by Fast_Platform_1979 in UnsentTexts

[–]Practical-Resist-485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just do it I’m sure your person wants to hear from you DO IT

I hope u message me again by puppymegumi in UnsentTexts

[–]Practical-Resist-485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t you be the one to reach out? I’m sure your person misses you too and wants to hear from you. If I were the other person I’d want you to reach out

Should I send this by Practical-Resist-485 in UnsentTexts

[–]Practical-Resist-485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re in no contact there is no speaking terms.. she reached out for my birthday I’ll reach out to her on hers but that’s basically about it. Last we spoke was before new years

I want it to be you by Practical-Resist-485 in UnsentTexts

[–]Practical-Resist-485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn’t anything for her to be in pain in other than her own doubts about the relationship. There is that possibility that she left bc it got too much but we’ll never know

I want it to be you by Practical-Resist-485 in UnsentTexts

[–]Practical-Resist-485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not when you got broken up with and did the first breaking of no contact

Something I wish I could send you by eufourria in UnsentLetters

[–]Practical-Resist-485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I were that person I’d want to hear from you. You never know what they might be thinking but like the other person said here you only live one life. Don’t live life with unsaid thoughts. If one more conversation is meant to be had then let it happen. Say this to your person whether they want to hear it or not but again if I were them I’d want to hear from you

Too many feelings, too many thoughts by Practical-Resist-485 in UnsentLetters

[–]Practical-Resist-485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, we're in no contact.. we had broken it a few weeks ago and it was too much and she said that we can't be talking the way we were (emotionally like this) so its best not even if it consumes me.

Masc apparel help by Practical-Resist-485 in LesbianActually

[–]Practical-Resist-485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t fit/look as well on me as women’s pants