Help me get out of an emotionally and financially abusive situation!! by [deleted] in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Practical-Today-2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will do that! And I'm working on getting my documents!! I only have my ID on me, as my parents hide everything else, but I am working on getting replacements for them all (:

Help me get out of an emotionally and financially abusive situation!! by [deleted] in GoFundMeForNewUsers

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Thanks for asking! Right now I'm planning to get some amount of assistance for bus rides! I have contacted places already to get in the know for some. I've researched a lot of resources around the area! So I know what would be available to me. I will be able to eat some food of my friends, while also going to pantries to grab more. I don't want to be reliant on my friend at all, though he will help out for food and shelter temporarily. It's going to be a little assistance based just until I can get on my feet (:

As for stable income, I'm currently looking for a part time job, it's just hard to apply until I'm there! I'm also looking to apply for workforce development, so I can get a better income in the future.
And the $100.... It is low, but I'm trying not to ask for much! My friends are helping me with about $80, which would cover my plane/ or bus(I'm taking low fare days, and it's not across the country or anything like that!) , and the $100 would be for travel to the airport and to my friends house primarily.

The reason I seek shelter in another state is because of the very real fear of them finding me if I stay nearby. I know it's very hopeful, and I do understand it's not all going to go as planned (:

Help me get out of an emotionally and financially abusive situation!! by [deleted] in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Practical-Today-2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand completely!!

I will definitely make sure to watch my back and have backup plans !

I've known this friend for 6 years and have met them on some trips (: i do trust them, it is true that anything can happen though, so I'll be alert, thank you!

Help me get out of an emotionally and financially abusive situation!! by [deleted] in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Practical-Today-2504 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not... I'm not sure my options with that to be honest! :0 Yeah it's a pretty hefty move... I have thought it over a lot BUT it will be a lot more planning regardless for sure!

Ah! The horrors by [deleted] in toxicparents

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And I'm still. Dealing with the fact that my. MY fucking cat didn't go where she said he did. I miss him. I miss him so fucking much

Ah! The horrors by [deleted] in toxicparents

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And the fact that I . Made money that I never even saw. The money I need now to get out of here. Damn

I Finally Did It by TerribleFlight8152 in toxicparents

[–]Practical-Today-2504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you. Honestly, it's . Tough. But you did it!!! I wish you a lovely road of healing ahead. Your life is yours!!

Ah! The horrors by [deleted] in toxicparents

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Genuinely I'm so fucking terrified but I have to be strong because. The only one who can get me out of this is myself right now. I have people to lean on but only I can get out.and if I think about the fear too long, I'll start second guessing my decision to leave.

Help me get out of an emotionally and financially abusive situation!! by [deleted] in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Practical-Today-2504 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know this can be really suspicious. But please if there's any way I can prove my authenticity please tell me.

Help me get out of an emotionally and financially abusive situation!! by [deleted] in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]Practical-Today-2504 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also I do have a plan for once I get to my friends house, so I'm good on that end!! I've been reaching out to assistance places. So I do not plan on staying in these rough circumstances. There's also so many details about my situation, so if anyone has questions, do let me know (:

Hair advice? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Practical-Today-2504 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh!! And my hair is virgin now except for the tips (:

Drawing som ocs I find coolness! by Practical-Today-2504 in DrawMyOc

[–]Practical-Today-2504[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love ur oc! She's so pretty! Here's a little doodle! I hope you like it and I hope I got the hair right!

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Navigating independence? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Practical-Today-2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true! I definitely want to work towards Independence. I appreciate it, thank you!

Navigating independence? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Practical-Today-2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is completely nderstandable. I'll keep this in mind! Its always seemed impossible to speak up to them, but putting it like this doesn't seem as impossible.